Don't Compare Yourself With Others.

in Project HOPElast year

Somebody taught me that if you really want to grow and develop in this life, make sure that you are always observant about what you did in the past, if they are good, make sure you keep doing them and if it is bad, make sure that you stop doing them.

One of the things that I have actually learnt from my past experience is the fact that I was comparing myself with others. It was really a deadly thing that I did which really affects me and makes me to become that which I wish not to have become.

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I remember years ago when I usually compare myself with others. I always feel under pressure to actually do things which I should not do and at the end of the day, I begin to suffer for it.

One of the things I want to admonish us today is the fact that we should avoid comparing ourselves with others. There is actually no need for that. We should just stay and be consistent with our growth.

Sometimes, what comparison did to us which we did not able to handle is the fact that it begins to create massive pressure for us. Why pressure, the more we continue to compare ourselves with others, we will be feeling so obligated to start doing what they are doing.

Not only doing things that they are doing but we just want to measure up. Before we know, we start doing something's that we should not have done which even sometimes might have result to our stagnation in growth.

Let's always focus on our growth. It is just a matter of time before we actually recover them. At first it might look so difficult but I

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Comparison is a thief of joy and gladness, when we engage in unhealthy comparison, it is only normal that we deprive ourselves of the joy we deserve.

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