The Singleness Series. 01

in #life7 years ago (edited)

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I have divided this series into four(4) parts. This first part is strictly on DIVORCE.
Firstly, you should know that the state you are in is a preparation for where you want to go.
To all the singles, God is preparing you for whom he has prepared for you. And also, if you a looking for a mate, you want to be an asset and not a liability to such a one. That person should be better for marrying you. If anyone comes into your life, it is good for them

Divorce

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I don't think there's anything more worse than a divorce. It's very difficult to survive a divorce. Some of you have never been divorced but you might have gone through the experience of a divorce. That is, you might have given yourself to someone at a certain level of emotional attachment and then something went wrong in that relationship or you have been in with a man or a woman for a few years and you were probably engaged to be married but along the way, it didn't work out. So from that, you have had some kind of experience of what a divorce feels like.

There's no human experience that is more tragic than a divorce.

A divorce is defined as the death of a relationship.

Divorce Is Worse Than Physical Death

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Question: why is divorce so tough?
Answer: this is because divorce is worse than physical death
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My advice to people who have never been married is this. Don't rush into what people are running away from. Now you might think marriage is a solution to your sexual problem or some other thing but i must tell you that it is not.

Question: why is divorce worse than physical death?
Answer: because divorce is a death without a burial
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It is better for a person to die than to get a divorce and still be alive. Why? It's because, when someone dies physically, you can bring a closure to it; you can cry, you can go to a wake, you can have a funeral, you can weep over their grave, you can put their body in the ground, you can cover it up with dirt, you can put a marker on it, you can leave the cemetery and never go back. It's over and you never see them again.
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But when you get a divorce, it is burial-free because when you get a divorce, you can't put the person in a hole even if you wanted to, you can't put dirt on top of the person, you can't put them in the cemetery and leave them forever. The problem is that they keep resurrecting; in the food store when you turn the corner, when you go to school to pick up the kids, there's the resurrection again. Whenever you guys see, maybe at work, there's the resurrection again and the pain keeps opening up.
It's the worse kind of death; the death of a relationship.

That's why you do not want to get a divorce.
It a permanent damage because divorce is not the parting of two people but the ripping off of two souls.

There's nothing more tragic than a broken heart. The bible has no miracle for divorce except the miraculous healing of the Holy Spirit in Luke 4:18.

The Spirit of the Lord is upon me, because he hath anointed me to preach the gospel to the poor; he hath sent me to heal the brokenhearted, to preach deliverance to the captives, and recovering of sight to the blind, to set at liberty them that are bruised.

Three(3) Facts

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  1. Divorce is impossible without marriage.
    You can not get a divorce unless you are married.
  2. Marriage is impossible without individuals
    You need marriage to get a divorce but you need individuals to get married. So then, the prerequisite for divorce is marriage and the prerequisite for marriage is individuals.
  3. Marriage, because it is the prerequisite for divorce, it is more important than a divorce and individuals are necessary for marriage.

Then, we can conclude that the most important thing in a relationship is not divorce nor marriage but INDIVIDUALS. SIMPLY PUT, SINGLENESS IS THE PREREQUISITE FOR MARRIAGE.

THANK YOU FOR READING

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