WOMAN; ARISE!!

No struggle can ever succeed without women participating side by side with men. MOHAMMED ALI JINNAH

Women pass through a lot of things, unimaginable and unspeakable situations. At times, relationships and situations that will make them regret forever.

Circumstances can force you to do what you wouldn't love to do and regret the rest of your life. Hunger and frustration can make you to sleep with a man that you wouldn't love to do it under normal circumstances, and any time, you see the man, you 'll be full of regrets. Feelings and experiences you can't share with anyone.

At times, you may wish to die to bury the stigma and shame. Any relationship you have and you are not proud of is no relationship.

A sister told me how she was madly in love with a young man, just to discover that, he was madly in love too with a widow, who cooks and buy things for him. This is real madness of the highest order. It could so painful.

A sister told me the things she was "forced" to do in order to see herself through higher school, as she was telling me the stories, what she faced, jumping from Ph to Calabar, Uyo, Benin, Lagos and Abuja. The men she met and her experiences, tears were rolling down my eyes. I wept for her.

When a man finally appeared for marriage, he happens to be a nephew to a man she had slept with in one of the outings. She had forgotten, but the man still remembered her. And he shouted, My son, you cannot marry this one.
Only both of them knew what transpired. She came crying and shedding tears. May God have mercy. Who do we blame, the girl, the parents of the girl, the boy's Uncle, her condition, the church?

A sister spent all her income to sponsor a man in school who later abandoned her to marry another woman, and she committed suicide.

A man who was as poor as a church rat became rich and the Sister who had been with him all through the years became ugly, smelling and shapeless. He threw her out and married another woman.

Today, he is back to square one. The new woman has threatened to quit and he is running from one prayer house to another. If the woman who suffered with him was smelling, he would have bought her deodorants, perfumes, good soap and cream.

Thank God for the masquerades or mascaras, the powder and make ups now. I blame the young man.

A sister had two guys disturbing her for marriage, one had a car and the other one had none. She loved the one without the car but the mum preferred the guy with a car. She pressurized the daughter into it.

After the marriage, the car was gone, NO money to pay house rent, things not working while the other guy was doing wonderfully well, got a good job, got married, travelled abroad as it were nothing.

Don't be attracted to a man by what he has, but by who he is. All other things, can disappear, but the man will always remain.

I have stories, and stories and stories. Good, bad and ugly stories to tell.

The world and life situations are complex. Only God can help us.

Any woman that has suffered with a man for years with in the Ghetto should not be maltreated when the sun shines forth.
You can always make your woman whatever you want her to be.

Women are wonderful creatures though there are some that are extremists, mostly the Professionals, from rich and wealthy homes, proud and arrogant. These ones may spend longer years in their Father's houses.

Woman you are more than this, more than what family, society, religion, profession, government, marriage, cultures makes of you. You are strong and without doubt great, rise up and be a woman.

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