WHY RUSH OVER A MEAL THAT IS YET TO BE SERVED?

The mistake most of Our ladies are making today is that when a man promises to marry them, they will immediately begin to have SEX with him, Wash his Clothes, Cook for him, and be Living with him simply because he Promises to Marry them.
This Is A Very Silly Mistake!
The fact that He promises to marry you does not mean it's a 100% guarantee that he will marry you. Selah!
Many people have made such promise and at the end they did not fulfill their promise, they disappoint the lady and leave her heart-broken and Frustrated.
Therefore, it is either you are Married or Single. If he promises to marry you, then wait until he marries you before you guys start behaving like Husband and Wife. For crying out loud you'll even be tired of all that at some point because you'll sure not be able to handle it every day.
Single Ladies, Marriage is a different ball game.
There are times it will be totally cold between you both and there are times it'll be extremely Hot.
Why RUSH?
// Why not set standards for yourself and tell your man about it so that he can respect it?
// Why not dare to be different and tell him NO?
// Why not make him understand that if he must Rush you, he must do the right thing?
// Why not strive to making him understand that sex is not love and love is not Sex?
// Why not make him understand that responsibility has a part to play if the cake must be Eaten?
// Why not make him understand that there is time for everything?
Listen, Men love it when a woman has got Standards. We don't like Buzzard or ignoramus kinda ladies...
We love it Eminently, Clear-headed, Inscient, Brightsome and Luminous.
We love it when you talk senses into us and point out the truth. Ofcos a real man will Respect it.
^ MY HUSBAND is not the same thing as MY FIANCE
^ MY WIFE is not the same thing as MY "FIANCEE
^ I PROMISE TO MARRY YOU is different from I AM YOUR HUSBAND.
AUNTY! Don't be Used.
THINK WITH YOUR BRAIN AND NOT WITH YOUR EAR.