昨天上班时，听到一个...

昨天上班时，听到一个同事跟我们吐槽。他说，他们小区隔壁邻居楼上楼下昨天大吵了一架，甚至在晚上还报了警，把警察都叫上门来了。

昨天晚上，他们那层楼热闹非凡。警察、居委会工作人员、社区人员全部都赶来了。此外，还有参与吵架的楼上楼下业主，大概一共15到20个人。

我问了一下吵架的原因。原来是楼上业主最近有两天每天晚上10点洗衣服，洗衣机放在阳台，运转时的噪音会吵到楼下业主休息。

楼下业主情况比较特殊，是个刚怀孕两三个月的年轻孕妇，一直在家安心养胎。她去年曾流产过一次，这次是今年再度怀孕。她的体质似乎不太好，心理压力大，有些抑郁，对楼上哪怕一点动静都感到特别烦躁。

因此，楼下业主的家属经常跑到楼上去敲门投诉。今天说阳台洗衣机声音太大，吵到休息了；明天又抱怨拖鞋走路声太响；大前天则称楼上业主家婆婆每天早上五六点钟关门的声音，把孕妇吵醒了，导致孕妇无法好好休息。总之，每天都是各种鸡毛蒜皮的事，天天上门敲门。

昨天，又是因为前一晚10点楼上还在阳台洗衣服。而且，楼上的洗衣机比较老旧，噪音很大，楼下业主终于忍无可忍，上门后直接破口大骂，双方随之发生了激烈争吵。

楼下孕妇并未参与吵架，而是留在家里，前去吵架的是楼下孕妇的家属（她老公和公婆）。双方吵得险些动手，楼上业主选择报警。

随后，警察赶来调解。俗话说，清官难断家务事，警察进行双方调解，引导双方相互体谅。

之后，居委会的人和社区的人也分别上门劝说两家。

这场风波前前后后折腾了两个多小时，才最终结束。

其实在小区群里，经常能看到类似抱怨，比如哪栋楼的邻居吐槽楼上小孩在家跳绳、拍皮球，影响楼下休息。通常，只要家里没有特殊情况，邻里之间还算和睦，一方提出问题后，制造噪音的邻居会很快改正，事情也就顺利解决了。我住的地方，隔壁和楼上楼下都很少传出噪音。

经同事这么一说，我愈发觉得，买房时能碰上通情达理、不惹事的邻居，大家相互关爱，是件幸运的事。不然，好不容易买了房，却遇到不好相处的邻居，三天两头上门闹事，实在令人头疼。

我们小区有位邻居，就因为无法调和邻里矛盾，一怒之下卖掉房子，置换到其他小区。可见，处理不好邻里关系，代价着实不小。

I heard one of my colleagues complaining at work yesterday. He said that the neighbors upstairs and downstairs in his community had a huge argument yesterday. They even called the police at night, and the police came to their door.

Last night, that floor of the building was really bustling. The police, the staff from the neighborhood committee, and people from the community all showed up. Besides, there were the homeowners from upstairs and downstairs who were involved in the quarrel, about 15 to 20 people in total.

I asked about the cause of their argument. It turned out that the homeowner upstairs had been doing laundry at 10 o'clock every night recently. The washing machine was placed on the balcony, and its noise disturbed the homeowner downstairs.

The situation of the homeowner downstairs was quite special. She was a young pregnant woman who was only two or three months along. She had been staying at home without going to work, focusing on taking care of her pregnancy. Her situation was special because she had a miscarriage last year, and this was her second pregnancy after that. Anyway, she seemed to have a weak constitution. Moreover, the pregnant woman was quite anxious and under a lot of pressure, and she was a bit depressed. So she would feel extremely irritated by even the slightest noise from upstairs.

Therefore, the family members of the homeowner downstairs often went upstairs to knock on the door and make complaints. One day they said that the sound of the washing machine on the balcony was too loud and disturbed their rest. Another day they complained that the sound of someone walking in slippers on the floor was too noisy and affected their rest. The day before yesterday, they said that the mother-in-law of the family upstairs would get up at six o'clock in the morning every day and the sound of closing the door woke up the pregnant woman and she couldn't have a good rest. In short, it was all kinds of trivial matters every day, and they would go upstairs to knock on the door every day.

Yesterday, it was because the laundry was still being done on the balcony at 10 o'clock the previous night. Moreover, the washing machine upstairs was a bit old, so it made a relatively loud noise. Finally, the homeowner downstairs couldn't bear it anymore and went upstairs to directly swear at them. Then the two sides had a fierce argument.

The pregnant woman downstairs didn't go up to argue. She had a threatened abortion because of the quarrel. It was the family members of the homeowner downstairs who went up to argue. They almost got into a physical fight, and the people upstairs called the police.

After that, the police came to mediate. As the saying goes, even an upright official finds it hard to settle family disputes. So in the end, the police mediated between the two sides and asked them to be considerate of each other.

After that, the people from the neighborhood committee and the community also came up to persuade both families separately.

This commotion lasted for more than two hours before finally coming to an end. In fact, in the community group, we often see similar complaints. For example, neighbors in a certain building say that children upstairs should not jump rope or bounce a ball at home because it disturbs the rest of the people downstairs. Generally, when there are no special circumstances at home, the neighbors get along quite harmoniously. Usually, once one side points out the problem, the neighbor making the noise will quickly correct it, and then both sides can live in peace. The neighbors next to me and upstairs and downstairs where I live are all quite nice. There is rarely any noise heard throughout the year, basically none.

After hearing what my colleague said yesterday, I realized that it is really a very lucky thing to be assigned good neighbors who don't cause trouble and to have a loving relationship among neighbors when buying a house. Otherwise, if you finally buy a house but find that the neighbors next to you or upstairs and downstairs are difficult to deal with and come to your house to cause trouble for no reason, it will be really troublesome. There was a neighbor in our community before. Because the relationship between the neighbors couldn't be reconciled, in a fit of anger, he sold his house and exchanged it for another house in a different community. It can be seen that the cost of not handling the neighborly relationship well is quite high.

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