Should you deliberately try to maintain friendship?

I believe that everyone from childhood to adulthood, will have their own friends, perhaps met in student days, perhaps befriended in the work, and perhaps ...... but everyone has also experienced the disappearance of friendship, perhaps because of the growth of age, career changes. No matter how, friendship has always existed around us, in our happy, happy, or lost, down time, need the company of friends.

Some people say that friendship is something that needs to be managed. Friendship and other feelings, family, love, are the same as we need to manage with care.

Frequent telephone communication

In your spare time, pick up the phone and dial a familiar number. Or send a weibo to exchange the latest situation. A friendship without contact is not a friendship, but a true friendship is one that can send a message at any time and is not eager for the other person's reply.

Always care about each other

In life, we can share with our friends when we are happy, happy, disillusioned and down, our friends will digest your happiness and unhappiness and help you make decisions, even if nothing is done, having the company of our friends is the biggest dose of comfort when we have emotions.

Have a tolerant heart

Everyone will have their own personality, even between parents and family members will have friction from time to time, not to mention friends? This reminds us to have a tolerant heart, tolerate each friend's personality and temperament, and constantly grind together. If it doesn't work out, why be friends in the first place? In other words, cherish each other's friendship twice as much.

Some people say that friendship needs to be maintained, but it doesn't need to be deliberate or anything. If every word is deliberate before you dare to resort to your mouth, what kind of friend is this? Not deliberately, not blindly, friendships are not purposeful, and sincerity is exchanged for sincerity.

In this big world, we are just a small person, too strong loneliness will engulf ourselves, in a lifetime will meet countless people, can go through setbacks and trials, stay by our side, is the most important friendship.

So it seems that whether we go with the flow or deliberately manage, it is a different way for different people to face the choice of friendship. These two choices are not black and white, opposing each other, in the end how to do, combined with your relationship with friends, I believe to be able to come up with an optimal answer.