In the face of emotional betrayal, don’t take your cowardice as soft-hearted and kind-hearted

Emotional betrayal is a direct injury; continuous betrayal is continuous malicious injury.

Therefore, when a person chooses to continuously harm you maliciously, you have to realize that for such a person, you must fight back; for such harm, you must resist.

There are many interpretations about betrayal, but no matter how you interpret it, there is one thing you must see:

The person who betrays you actually doesn't care about you in his heart; a person who doesn't care about you, you can't expect him to discover it with his conscience.

Therefore, in reality, those betrayals that occur over and over again are often powerless for the betrayed party. This powerlessness will further encourage the other party's arrogance.

Some people will say that he has been betraying me all these years, what should I do so that he can not betray me?

Yes, many people are facing such a predicament and are helpless. They may have made various attempts, including moving emotions, knowing reason, including relatives and friends, including professional agency consultation, and even using S to force... …However, the other party is still acting its own way and indifferent.

It seems that as long as the marriage is not good, the solution is a divorce-what I want to talk about, of course, is not what I mean. Please be aware that there is a premise here, that is, the other party has been betraying and continuing to betray. If a person always chooses to betray, then, in fact, it has nothing to do with you. In other words, if you are any person, he may betray. Then, you must also understand that for such a person, leaving is the solution to "betrayal." The only way.

This principle is like when you meet a natural sadist, you have to be with him all day long, then you are the object of abuse, you feel wronged at this time, and even you try to "treat" the other person... save the time. , You can heal yourself, it’s not bad to save yourself.

Therefore, in the face of emotional betrayal, it does not mean that you cannot forgive, or that you have to divorce as soon as there is betrayal—but all forgiveness and restoration require a bottom line. If the other party has challenged your bottom line, at this time, you need to fight back, otherwise, any explanation will be pale; any self-comfort will be futile.

In marriage, the most feared thing is cowardice; the fundamental reason why you are unhappy in marriage is not that you meet someone who is bullying and afraid of hardship, but because you are a cowardly person within yourself, so adjust Oneself, no longer cowardly, becoming tougher, is the fundamental solution to the problem.