When a person reaches a certain age, he must get married. It seems that the completion of one's own marriage has become a "rule" established by the custom. Most people who do not follow this "rule" will be regarded as heterogeneous, especially women. With the gradual implementation of equal rights for men and women, many women no longer "turn around their husbands and children", and are more inclined to pursue career development than returning to their families.

With the bombardment of various relatives and the continuous dating of blind dates, many people will not be able to withstand the pressure, rush to find a marriage partner, and finally enter the palace of marriage.
So, who did these "older leftover women" eventually marry?

1. The blind date of the “right to the door”

Many elder single youths’ holidays are crowded with "blind dates" arranged by their parents and relatives. These "male guests" who appeared in sequence were either parents, children of relatives' friends, or parents carefully selected and collected on various "park dating corners" and "marriage websites."
Their "conditions" have been controlled by their parents, and in a sense are very commensurate with the woman's.
Maybe they weren't amazing enough, that little spark, in the end failed to sing up the prairie in the girl's heart.

However, if you just want to find a "suitable" person to marry just because you can't bear the pressure and vision of the world, then these "male guests" can be said to be very suitable.

A large number of people end up marrying the "right person" in the eyes of their parents. This one is also the one with the most!

2. Successful men who fight for their careers

Inspiring young women are not only the older unmarried young women, more and more boys are also choosing to "start a career first, then get a family". When they are young, they focus on their careers.

As they grew older, their careers gradually stabilized, and finally began to worry about their marriage.

However, according to social customs, men tend to look for women younger than themselves, which is why "older leftover women" will bear more pressure than "older leftover men".

It is precisely because of this that there are young girls in their twenties who are competing with older young women for these "Diamond Kings".

This also means that only those who are truly outstanding in terms of appearance, connotation, education, and family background can stand out in this competition.

3. The "right person" whom I firmly believe in

There are also some older unmarried young women who have not always found a suitable object, but they think they are suitable, and they have not been recognized by the family.

Maybe it's because of resistance, maybe it's waiting for that person to grow up.

Until the age of thirty, some people finally waited until their parents let go, and they finally married the "right person" they had chosen back then. But the fairy tale only ends in the most beautiful moment. After the princess and the prince get married, they will face the naked reality.

Some people’s waiting is worthwhile, but some people’s love is obliterated in the real clamor of life, the chai, rice, oil, salt, sauce and vinegar tea of ​​life.

What you need to do at any age. At the right age of twenty, you choose a career, and you will reap a certain amount of wealth and status when you stand; if you choose to manage a relationship seriously, then you may reap a happy family.

The biggest winners in life are those who have a double harvest in love and career. They did not bury themselves in their work because of escape from feelings, nor did they use feelings as an excuse for letting down time.