DADS PREPARE YOUR KIDS FOR THE WORLD

in #steemchurch6 years ago

Research has it that so many kids today are growing up without a dad's input. As a result of this, they end up making a poor life, marriage or relationship choices.

They are ways a dad get's to equip his child for life in the real world.

KNOW WHAT THEY ARE UP TO: Try to know what subjects they enjoy in school and the ones that stresses them, the friends they keep, what makes them tick, who they spend time with during and after break, take them out for doughnuts make them feel like royalties spending one to one time with Dad.

TEACH THEM TO STAND UP FOR THEMSELVES: Your kid/kids must stand tall, teach them respect, increasing suicide rate could be caused by the tragedy of children's young world of playground bullying. teach them how to protect themselves by speaking up appriopriately when they are not clear about their lesson or, to boldly say what they believe. teach them assertiveness in confronting unfair treatment.

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15 For though ye have ten thousand instructers in Christ, yet have ye not many fathers: for in Christ Jesus I have begotten you through the gospel. (1Corinthians 4:15 AKJV)

GIVE THEM AN EXAMPLE: You don't tell kids it's very essential to be healthy and active when you are fond of eating loads of junk food and watching sports on T.v. they need to be convinced, and they will be when you walk the walk. when you do, i bet they will think how awesome it is to be like dad.

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LET THEM KNOW ABOUT DANGERS OF HAVING SENSE OF ENTITLEMENT: Let them know we are all bound to make mistakes. kids learn how to deal with dissapointment from failure

SHOW THEM WHY YOU MARRIED THEIR MUM: When they see you treat their mother like a queen, giving her honour and consideration, they will appreciate and emulate

TEACH THEM ABOUT DEATH: Tell them about your death (your own and their own, let them know that life, no matter how long is a gift to be maximized. tell them why they must make heaven.

17 And he shall go before him in the spirit and power of Elias, to turn the hearts of the fathers to the children, and the disobedient to the wisdom of the just; to make ready a people prepared for the Lord. (Luke 1:17 AKJV)

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Dear Fathers or Fathers to be, doing the aforementioned will really help out your child or children in being able to face the real world. But remember, they watch what you do at all times and they cannot follow a path you ask them to follow if you yourself are not following that path.

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THANK YOU FOR YOUR TIME!!!

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Godly parenting is a command from the father above with great reward for obedience.

Research has it that so many kids today are growing up without a dad's input. As a result of this, they end up making a poor life, marriage or relationship choices.

This is true, one of the reasons I have been trying so hard to learn more about parenting and being a good father before getting married.

Yes bro, we really need to learn about parenting before going into it. You will be suprised to find out that a lot of people have children but do not know how to make their kids stand out, be disciplined or successful in future. @tyrex

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That's why the bible says "Train up a child in the way he should go and when his old he will never depart from it"
Thanks for sharing @citimillz

The father has been placed as the head of the family in order to carter for them both physically and spiritually.