It's cultivation to see through

In life, there are all kinds of people, right and wrong things, and feelings, but there are always people who will point out. In fact, the real wise: conduct oneself, see through but don't say through. Hemingway said: "it took us two years to learn to speak, but it took us sixty years to learn to shut up.". Many things can be seen clearly at a glance, and they know each other well. If you don't see through, you don't see through, you often leave room for others, and you also leave space and retreat for yourself. This is not only a kind, but also a reflection of one's self-cultivation.

Not to say, it is a kind of wisdom. There are always some people who think how brilliant and talented they are. They like to comment on things and call them forthright. It is not only a skill, but also the highest realm of language art. Not to say, it is a very effective weapon, which can solve many problems and avoid many problems.

No, it's a choice. Many times, in the face of some people and things, we will choose not to say, not because of who we are afraid of, but just let time prove time and let people verify people's heart. Calm, down-to-earth to do their own, less talk, more work, know but not speak, timely silence.

Not to say, it is a kind of cultivation. There are a lot of words to stay in the heart, do not have to say, grasp the degree. Even if it's true advice, it should sound comfortable. Everyone's situation is different, some things we only see the appearance, we should not comment on others at will.

Not to say, it is a kind of maturity. Being good at listening is a sign of maturity. Be careful in your words and deeds, think twice before you act, and think twice before you speak. Especially when they are excluded and wronged, let alone. With magnanimous mind to continue to do their own job, everyone has an account in mind.

Not to say, it is a kind of calmness. Our facial features, with two ears and a mouth, are telling us to listen more and speak less. You don't have to say all you know, but you don't have friends. It's not necessary to be strict with a person who is responsible, but it's a long way off.

I hope you and I will speak rationally, grasp the size, see through, do not say through, take care of your own mouth, the road of life will be wider and smoother.