My friend Iris always complains with me recently. She and her boyfriend have nothing to say now.

Her boyfriend sends her good morning in the morning and good night in the evening.

In this way, there was no communication for a day. Each of them is busy.

Even at the end of the week, the two of them make an appointment with each other. They also sit opposite each other and play with their own mobile phones.

Friends tease themselves that although they are not single, they are more lonely than when they are single.

As we all know, two people from acquaintance, acquaintance, love, are not familiar with the beginning, slowly began to understand each other.

Every relationship goes through a period of love.

As soon as the fresh energy of the hot love period passed, their feelings were not as close as before.

So, what should we do in order to make our love always in the period of hot love?

In my opinion, there are three main points:

First: always keep a sense of mystery.

This is very important for both girls and boys.

You should always keep your own mystery. You can't disclose everything to the other party, and you can't report your whereabouts as if you were in the opposite direction.

To always maintain a sense of mystery, give each other a sense of uncertainty, so that the other side will always be fascinated by you.

If you let them know everything about you, they will lose the motivation to continue to be curious about you.

After a long time, naturally, they will not be interested in you.

The advantage of maintaining a sense of mystery is that your image is renewed in the eyes of the other person.

When the other party gets along with you slowly, the closer they are to you, the better they will find out about you.

At the moment, you are a treasure in each other's eyes, only in this way, the other party will want to continue to dig your treasure.

Second: make a little surprise for each other.

No matter how deep a couple's feelings are, they will feel tired after a long time.

Just like your favorite shredded potato, if you eat shredded potato every day, you will be tired of it.

The day is like the stagnant water in the river, throwing some stones can't stir up any waves.

Therefore, we need to find some stimulation in our life, and we need to give your feelings some freshness.

It's important for each other to find some. For example: each other's birthday, your anniversary.

You can cook for each other in person, secretly prepare birthday gifts, buy a long-time favorite gift, or make an appointment where the other party has always wanted to go but failed to go.

When you do these things, you should keep it from the other party.

However, it should be noted that you must be within the acceptable range of the other party, and you can't do some pranks. In this way, maybe the surprise will turn into fright.

Third: give respect to each other while maintaining communication.

Before I saw a post on the Internet, it said: "do you think couples should chat every day?"

Some people don't think it's necessary. The reason is that even lovers, no matter how close the relationship is, should have their own private space.

Some people think it's necessary, and the reason is simple and crude. All my love and finding a boyfriend or girlfriend is just to chat with her anytime and anywhere?

There is a hamlet in a thousand people's eyes.

It's normal to have different views on the same issue.

One of my friends, Xiaomin, has been married to her husband for ten years. Their relationship is still like first love.

Many people ask her for the secret of love.

She is very happy to share with you. She has an appointment with her husband.

That is, after 10 o'clock every day, both sides should communicate with each other. If one of them is not at home, open the video.

In addition, at the end of the month, they will hold a month end summary meeting.

This paper summarizes and analyzes the times, causes and results of their quarrels.

Even if the two quarreled fiercely, they did not break up.

Whoever is wrong should apologize, so as to consolidate the foundation of their relationship.

Joyce also said that she had never turned over her husband's mobile phone.

Her husband did not turn over her mobile phone, because it is mutual trust.

In my opinion, if some problems occur, we must communicate and solve them in time.

If you blindly escape, things will not be solved, and their feelings will be in crisis.

At the same time, no matter how close their relationship is, they should respect each other's privacy and give each other a chance to be alone.

Fourth: let the other party eat vinegar appropriately.

There is competition, there is motivation.

Someone chases you, which shows that you have great charm. Let the other party know that you are so popular, so that the other party will cherish you more.

Let the other party eat a little vinegar, which will help to strengthen the relationship between you.

Feelings need to be managed. In feelings, only two people manage with their heart, will your feelings be better and better.