The most efficient way to deal with problems

in onionrings4 years ago

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1、In case of emergency, can control emotions.

When you are influenced by emotions, what you say and what you make are more likely to go wrong. Especially in the case of emergency, it is particularly important to control emotions first.

In life, we often encounter some unexpected situations. The more anxious we are, the more prone we are to make mistakes. Therefore, learning to control emotions is a compulsory course. Only by easing one's mood and thinking and judging calmly can one make a correct decision.

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2、If you don't like it, you can think in another place.

Su Shi has a poem: "horizontal as ridge, side into peak, far and near high and low are different." It's the same with the scenery, not to mention the complicated people and things we meet in our life? If you want to see a person or a thing more comprehensively, you should learn to stand in other people's perspective, put yourself in other people's shoes to feel and understand others.

Everyone has their own difficulties and difficulties. If you think about things from the perspective of others, you will have less complaints and more understanding. Learn to transpose thinking, in order to really see others is not easy; heart to heart, in order to harvest more gentle kindness.

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3、Learn to turn the corner when it's hard to solve.

Sometimes, when a road comes to an end, it seems that there is no way to go, but in fact, it just needs to turn a corner to suddenly become clear. Flexibility is not to give up, but to find a better solution to the problem. No matter big or small, it is a kind of spirit to persist in the end, but sometimes it is also a kind of wisdom to learn to turn around.

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4、What you can't change, you know how to be relieved.

In our life, we may also be worried about some things that have happened, and let ourselves bear heavy pressure. There is a saying: "to the day can not be pursued, the future can still be expected." When something has happened and we can't change it, all we need to do is learn to let go and move on.
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There will be many things in our life, and there will be many ways to deal with them. Life is long and the future is promising. I hope you can not be troubled by emotions, learn to compare heart to heart, know how to be flexible when you encounter difficult things, and feel relieved when you encounter things you can't change. I believe that all good things will come as scheduled.

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