Is Love Really The Problem? Contributed by @Olawalium
Love is such a beautiful thing that no one can ever deny, no matter how it is conceived.
Love can happen anywhere. I have seen people fall in love on the bus, in the library, on the street, in Church, Mosque, game center, mall, and even in the zoo. Erm...well...on that last one, the hippopotamus is my witness.
Love is like a rain, so gentle and pure. Love is a feeling you feel when you feel you are feeling a feeling like you have never felt before. Love is capable of healing you and getting you to the desired height. Love is sweet, regardless of your experience. Love is life.
Many people have lost belief in love because of past hurts. Many feel hard done by, from a cheating lover or a lying one.
Many gave up on it because don’t seem to get any in return but is love really the problem or human character? Love is never the problem but we humans have learned to take advantage of everything till we mess it up.
We have a wonderful world until our attitude brings decadence. We have love but for hidden agenda, greed and in-depth wickedness, we have been using love to our advantage.
We raise the hope of another with “love” and make them believe and trust us with everything that has to do with them, only to leave them in the cold. That is not the love we know. That is the human version. At least, the people that left people in the cold will still end up with somebody. The ones left at the altar, if they still open up to love, will still end up with another.
So, is love really the problem? No! We are.
To be continued...
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Actually who can love problem he will be winner in future i think.
Love is not a prablem but going insane on love is the provlem. Love is a strong and pious feeling of togetherness , but when ot change to possesiveness os the time when it staryes creating mess and provlem. So better live the love life freely...with authorative approach👍
Beautiful. You have just hit the nail on the head. Love is never the problem but our attitude, our approach and understanding of it. Love this comment. Thanks my friend.
Hippo love? I prefer respect than love...that can be deadly.
Hahahaha. There is no respect without love too.
When love fades... respect is the glue.
A lot of things contributes to love fading...and if not addressed, there might be nothing to respect. I admit to what you say though, when the thrill and feels reduces, the respect holds it up and this still shows love is not the problem, but our attitude.
Love is not enough, better end it before every bit of respect disappears. When respect is gone, it gets nasty. If that is attitude, then it probably is.
I guess this is personal to you and it won't be fair to judge what i have no knowledge of. What you said still boils down on what i was trying to say, love is not the problem but we humans are. We change our minds often and also focus on the wrong things. In every relationship, we should follow our heart and do what's best for us if the love affair isn't working anymore.
Humans sometimes get blinded and forget what is important. Love makes us blind too and not see realities in life. You're right...if humans see that they're at fault, claim it and perhaps learn from it and try to be better...would you agree?
Absolutely. Ability not to accept wrongs is a threat to love. Ego and the desire to be right should be swept away. Yes, we sometimes get blinded...
We are the main problem to ourselves because we are self centered and selfish when it comes to loving someone, love is pure and love is nice.
Absolutely...love is pure and love is nice but our self centeredness, opinionated views and stuck up mentality mess things up for us. Love is never the problem, we are. Thanks a lot for this brother.
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