It Is All In Your Head. III, Contributed by @Olawalium
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So, the person that asked this guy started making him feel he is unserious, and I could see it bothered this guy a little bit more. A lot of people won’t see the efforts you are putting in behind the scene, all they want is the result and that is understandable, but then, it is never enough to form an opinion on another person or invent a problem for them which they never see as one in the first place.
Most of these problems are in our heads and only we can boot them out with the right attitude, approach, and perspective. You don’t have a problem, don’t let people invent one for you.
It is okay to be shown the path to follow, but determine if you really want that route. Let it be your choice and on your terms, not theirs.
Each man should chart his own course. Filter what goes through your mind and your head because they go a long way to determine how you behave and how you behave determines how far you will go. Be fearless.
One thing I have noticed in this life is, a lot of people generalize issues. Once one thing happens to one person, they generalize it as a norm. Oh! 80% of ladies have terrible first-time sex experience. What? 80%? Have you been to another part of the world to know? Have you sampled all the ladies? What is the ground for your analysis and how reliable is the analysis to be so sure that these people gave you an honest report?
We generalize a lot and create unnecessary fears in people’s mind and because it happened to a certain number of people doesn’t normally make it a general cause of concern. This is the world we live in, so yes, it gets put out there and this is why we can’t control the external issues that create problems in our heads, but we have control over the things we allow to get to us.
Have control of your internal actions. It’s all in your head and keeps a positive mindset with a strong basis that, your experience will always be different.
What are you going through? What has life thrown at you? What is the ”misery loves company shareholders” opening your eyes to see? With a better view and a positive mindset, you will know that those problems are all in your head and if there was any, it is not as bad as they made it sound.
Guard your heart and do the needful.
Thank you for your time.
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Still me,
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Olawalium; (Love’s chemical content, in human form). Take a dose today: doctor’s order.