Talk a new story since the old one has no use anymore

We all know the saying "You live the life of your thoughts" A few words that speak so much. And everyone agrees with that statement. In principle. Because when we are experiencing that saying - it sounds right. But when we try to analyze it, it sounds painful. If it is correct, the question arises as to what people think if they live their lives they do not want? Undesirable? When they start to say that life is hard, life is a struggle, when they start to say that people are bad, that there is no one normal, that everything went to the hell - the only acceptable reaction that remains is to agree with their opinion. Because at any attempt to express a different attitude, you will at best get the etiquette of the idealist, dreamer, and you're "a bit on your own" and in the worst fools, fools, and jeers.

People intend to have their thoughts accurate and not useful. That is why they live more often in "the right" than in happiness. Because if you were right you just need to point out what you see it to be so, and to be happy you have to see a little further than it is and a little closer to what you want it to be. If you suggest to those people that they should change their mindset, you enter into a battle not only with them but with their ego. Then with the joint forces, the ego and his landlord open the barrage of fire to all and anyone who endangers the multi-year system of functioning of their profound holiness in the world. The order reads - they are right and you are a foreign mercenary.