Into society, it is inevitable to merge with each other, and it is inevitable to have some intersection with some people. People who live well will have a good time, and people who live badly will always find no reason.

So, why do you always have a bad day? Why is it always mixed badly?

If life is not going well, you usually have the following 4 habits, let’s take a look at it together:

The first habit: Being at home, dislikes socializing, dislikes asking for help.

Successful people, when talking about their own success, usually have this kind of rhetoric: Thank you for the support and guidance of so and so.

Do you think this is polite?

In fact, it is true.

In addition to your parents, you always need a few noble people to support your life all the way, even if it's just a single sentence, it's like a divine initiation, which can make your stagnant life go smoothly all the way.

So you see, in addition to fate, you have to meet nobles, and more importantly, you have to learn to go out, interact with people more, and make friends with people who are beneficial to you.

The second habit: soft-hearted, not persistent enough, give up easily.

Don't think that being soft-hearted is commendation. In many cases, failure is due to soft-heartedness.

A soft-hearted person is not really kind, but too weak. When encountering a strong enemy or difficult situation, he easily gives up fighting and moving forward, thinking that patience is a blessing? But it is not persistent enough, and not strong enough.

A person must have a certain degree of tenacity and cruelty if he wants to succeed and want to mix well.

The third habit: impatient, impatient, and short-tempered.

People who are impatient cannot eat hot tofu. People who are short-tempered tend to lose their minds.

People with this habit often can't make more advanced friends. Yes, because they will think that you must be a husband when you are impatient, and think that you are difficult to achieve.

The fourth habit: not good at asking others, too self-esteem, but hard to be self-improving.

Successful people are all good at asking for help. The more they are looked down upon, the more easily they will not give up, and eventually "get back real gold with a bold face."

People who live a bad life must not be good at asking for help, not asking for help easily, and even treating asking for help as a major event of losing their dignity. They would rather die poorly than guard their humble self-esteem, and then lie to themselves that everything will pass.

I think that if you want to succeed, you must first put down your face. It is not that you do not want to be self-esteem, but on the road to success, there will be a lot of tearing off your self-esteem, it is better to learn to be self-defeating.