My Neighbor With ADHD Is On Drinking Session Again With His Friends

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This is the message request by my neighbor using his wife's Facebook account and the text translates that he is giving me an apology about the disturbance that he caused/causing me (during his drinking sessions) also citing he seems to be blocked to me in messenger. He says that it will not happen again and that he will always be there if I needed his help, ending it with "your childhood friend - Jayson"

I didn't replied to this message request because I am not sure if it was him talking to me. For once he did not call me "Brother Arnold" because he always calls me with my short Nickname like "Nold" or "Nod".

This account by the way was from his wife and not his, he is not active in FB maybe because he might be using another name that I do not know of or maybe it is just not his thing. I also doubt that he has a computer in his home now but in his wife's house I do think there is.

If he has an active account in FB he might added me already but he just used this account to message me.

But one thing that I think that he was the one that messaged me was the difference now with the noise that they make while drinking with his friends. They are having a session now but now the noise already had mellowed down although I can still hear their conversations and laughter from time to time.

I also think that they could not play some music because it is still lockdown here in my province and they are careful not to get some attention.

So I think that his sincerity was true and that they just turned down the noise that they create because my neighbor knows about my situation.

It is unfortunate that we had separated in different ways, me with my religious inclination while he veered away into getting involved with his own friends that influenced him into drinking sessions.

Well I am blaming my situation or health condition for letting this former friend of mine get caught by other people that in no way I will be in friends with because I am just disabled now with an awkward appearance plus all these pains so I can never get to be with him anymore with activities that we are doing before.

Who will anyway hang-out with a disabled person like me, normal people will just avoid me for the fear of maybe I will give them troubles, awkward situation, or the fear of taking things from them which by the way in any way will not going to happen because I only take what other people are offering.

I just cherished in my heart the fun times that this neighbor of mine and myself had together. He is an extroverted man and is very outgoing unlike me which is the opposite. He has an ADHD and really hyper and always smiling, the center of the party which is why his friends now are always in his house where they do their drinking sessions. People does like him because of his positive moods.

But he is moody and could not retain friends which is why we are not friends anymore and the same for his other friends that he had, a typical ADHD person's qualities and really weird but ADHD people are fun to be with because of their grandiose thinking sometimes and talkativeness, laughter, and all that but with a cons that you should be aware about as well. So if you are with somebody like them you can learn about their behavior and you can understand what I am talking about.