Everyone is born with self-esteem and desires respect and praise from others, even children. In everyone's eyes, they are especially concerned about the evaluation of their parents, hoping that they will recognize their performance, which will give him the courage and confidence to move forward.

Therefore, often just a word of praise can make their hearts feel special satisfaction.So, what encouragement should you often say to your children?

Understand what the child said

In the face of difficulties, some children will be overwhelmed because they cannot bear it, and even have heart-wrenching results.

In fact, it may not be schoolwork or life that crushes a child, but his inner anxiety and depression. Because he is not taken seriously by his parents, or worried about not being understood by them, some have been suppressed and denied, and they are often easily caused by inner collapse. Make extreme choices.

In this case, parents should tell their children: "I know this thing is not easy to do, but no matter how difficult it is, it is temporary", "Let us find a solution together, okay?" etc.

This is to show that you already know your child’s stress and understand his sadness, loss and exhaustion. These words can make the child feel understood and affirmed. Because of the inner support, he will naturally work hard to find a way as soon as possible. Overcome difficulties and change the passive situation in front of us.

Affirming the child

For various reasons, it is impossible for every child to become a schoolmaster. Some children may have mediocre aptitudes and average academic performance, and some children may be more naughty, causing trouble from time to time, causing headaches for their parents.
But from another perspective, as long as the child is honest, kind, respectful, and compassionate to his parents, even though they are ordinary, it is also something to be proud of. Therefore, parents should pay more attention to the child’s merits, his efforts, and even some details. All have done well.

When a child's test scores are not satisfactory, parents can tell him: "Although the test is not good this time, it doesn't matter. As long as you know where you went wrong, you won't be wrong again next time", let him realize the importance of details .

When your child is procrastinating on homework, you can also say: "You write slowly today, but you are more serious, and you write beautifully. Just pay attention to speed up next time." Let the child grasp the time for homework.

Through the infiltration of these languages, let the children get changes in time, and there will be different results in the end.

Words to comfort the child

Almost all parents want their children to succeed, but success is not easy. Many people may fail even if they work very hard.

Therefore, parents should see the hard work and progress made by their children, and teach them how to face failure correctly. This is a topic that must be faced on the road to parenting.

When frustrated, children need the support and comfort of their parents the most to overcome their inner tension and frustration.

At this time, the parents have to say to their children: "Failure is nothing? We can start all over again", "This is just a small setback, and each of us will experience it."

In this way, children can face failure with a normal mind, and continue to work hard on the road of growth. They will not lose confidence due to an accidental failure, or even stop their progress.

Words full of love

Due to the nature of the child, various situations may often occur, such as breaking things at home, fighting with classmates at school, etc., and even being asked by a parent by a teacher. This is a process that must be experienced when growing up.

When educating children, parents can criticize and educate, but at the same time, don’t forget to send a sentence, that is: "Although you are in trouble, but I still love you", "I don't like you fighting at school, but you still It's my child".

These loving words will make children feel extremely warm, so that they can reflect on their behavior and make timely changes. Because I can feel the love of my parents, I can build a strong sense of security in my heart, and I can move forward without fear even in the face of external pressure.

Since becoming a parent, education has been an endless practice.

I hope that my child is good, not to let him fly high without stopping, but to let him grow up happily and happily, especially in the face of difficulties, to get the correct encouragement from his parents, so that he can fly higher and higher smoothly.