HOW TO ENJOY LIFE EVEN IF YOU DO NOT HAVE MANY MONEY
Try asking someone how to enjoy life and most of them will answer money (rich). Yes indeed having a lot of money can give us meaningful freedom including happiness itself, but does a person who does not have a lot of money means can not be happy or enjoy this life?
Do you feel annoyed because you do not have a lot of money so can not enjoy the glamorous life as you desire?
Lots of people who run always to money or material, both in everyday life, romance, and social. Consider the person who always says "nowadays the most important money, the woman is sure to stick with it.", The funny thing is that most people who talk like that are not rich and anything we try to always turn back to money, money and money.
Very reasonable people think like that because they do not have a lot of money (rich) and we also can not impose a point of view to others. If people think money is everything, then anything we do will not change his mind until he has as much money as he hopes.
Just think about it for a moment, the reality is:
- Many famous and rich artists who fall into drugs (depression)
- Many politicians / governments (who are already rich) are still corrupt
- Even many spouses divorce with the person he initially thought was his only happiness
- What you think brings happiness is a momentary illusion because you do not have it yet and as you pursue that illusion you begin to lose everything you already have.
I often see people who are depressed because of their lack of finances. Many teenagers are sad just because their parents can not buy the latest gadgets like their rich friends, many depressed simply because they feel they can not celebrate life, partying, out-of-country streets, and other lifestyles simply because they do not have lots of money to spend.
But money is not everything, yes indeed money can buy happiness if used properly, but there is far more happiness that money can not buy.
Here are some ways to enjoy life even if you do not have a lot of money:
- Learn to accept yourself
One of the best ways to enjoy life is to enjoy yourself. Live your own life, there are three important things:
Live in the moment: Live now, this moment too, stop worrying about the future, and do not get caught up in the past.
Release yourself from expectations: Do not expect others to do this, do not expect things to be like that, just do what you can change and do now.
Learn to forgive: Forgive others who have done wrong to us (but keep in mind the lesson) and more importantly forgive yourself.
Find your inner peace first, be thankful with everything you already have, even as sad as you are still breathing today and reading this 🙂
Do not compare yourself with others
Beyond that there are always richer, more handsome, more popular, and more everything from you. And the worst thing is when you think other people are happier than you.
Happiness is a matter of decisions, your own decisions without anyone's intervention, comparing your life with others is the fastest way to destroy your own happiness, so stop thinking about other people's lives, just be happy with your life.
Be creative
how to be creative Being creative does not need a lot of money really, just pour out what your passion or something you can create. Even just making blogs, drawing designs, and other artworks can enrich the life experience and with it makes you happier.
Try:
- Write on blog
- Be a photographer
- Learn the latest dance types
- Learn to play guitar or other musical instrument
- Practice a variety of magic tricks
- etc
It all does not cost a lot, even you can learn everything for free on the internet.
Do what you like (find your passion)
Because here we do not discuss money / wealth, then passion is the best way to find happiness and enjoy your life as much as possible.
Although passion does not guarantee you will become a rich person, but passion can make you happy and in other sense wealth that even money can not buy.