**SEC17 WK:#5: caring for aged and dependent relatives in the family
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Without realizing it, we are already in the 5th week of challenges for season 17. We are faced again with a contest that has been organized by the Steem Kids & Parents community with the theme "Caring for elderly relatives and dependents in the family.
Remembering that our role is very important in caring for people. If you are older, this contest will definitely be very interesting to take part in. Before I start, here I want to invite familiar Steemian's @walictd @mesola @moyeon warm greetings to you💝
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The stages of human life development after birth are infant, child or toddler, teenager, adult and elderly. These are the stages we will go through in this life. There is no human being who will not experience old age.
No matter how hard we fight fate not to enter old age, we will still pass through old age in this life. Someone who is about to enter the elderly or someone who has entered the age of 60 years and over is those who have experienced a period of decline in their productivity.
Those who are old will definitely experience a weakened physical condition. They will experience slowness in movement, missing teeth, white hair, wrinkled skin, starting to experience vision problems such as nearsightedness and hearing will begin to decrease.
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We must help the elderly people around us. Especially in a family, for example grandmother and grandfather, father and mother or uncles and aunts who live with us or not, we must take care of them as well as possible. Don't let them live in their old age with hardship and sadness.
Currently I happen to live with my elderly mother. Since my father died, my mother has lived at home with my older siblings. At that time I was pursuing my undergraduate education outside the city.
When my sisters got married, their respective husbands took them to live in their husband's house. My mother was left alone who always cried and felt lonely. So after I finished college I immediately went home and lived with my mother.
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When I got married and had children, even now I still live with my mother. Currently my mother is very old, she is 82 years old. Even though she is 82 years old, my mother is still healthy, still able to walk even though she occasionally uses a cane.
My mother is also still able to pray five times a day even by sitting and fasting completely in the month of Ramadan. As a child I must always be filial to my parents who are the only ones left. I always try to meet his needs, take care of him, and give him my love and attention.
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Even though my old mother's character is now like a child who is fussy, wants a lot, and makes all the wrong things, I always try to be patient with her.When I'm tired of dealing with her, I just keep quiet and don't want to hurt her in the slightest because I will definitely remember that's how she dealt with me when I was little.
In the past, how tired he was of taking care of me, taking care of me and educating me until I grew up. Now as a child I will be devoted to him. I don't want to be a disobedient child.
When my mother was sick, my brothers and I and I provided the best medical care for her so that my mother would be healthy again. We provide therapy, the best treatment and nutritious food for her.
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Not only my mother, everyone who has reached old age needs the role of their family, especially their children, in supporting an optimal quality of life and maintaining good mental and physical health.
That's my sharing in the contest entitled “caring for aged and dependent relatives in the family” hopefully it can be useful for all of us. I would like to thank this great Steem Kids & Parents Community.
Regard
@dederanggayoni
Old age is something natural that happens to everyone, it's a good thing to care, support our age relatives and families that are aged so that they can gain emotional support and have a sense of belonging. Your really analyse well by including an extension of hands to reach out to old people whether we are related to them or not, they just should be cared for and supported
That's right, friends, if it is our own parents or other relatives, it is our responsibility to care for and support them with love. But for other people around us, we also need to pay attention to them and help them too.
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This is a process that will occur from the moment we are born, then we go through several stages until we reach adulthood where we experience various things including experience and where changes occur to the bodies, they are no longer the same and they need care. . of loved ones.
When you are that age, you need a lot more care because you get sick or your abilities are no longer the same. Since your sisters got married, your mother stayed with you, being the one who took care of her with love and dedication.
A stage where they do not see if there is danger or not and they want to do everything, it is good to have a lot of patience in these cases.
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We can be patient because we love someone who has also been patient and has given everything for us, namely our mother. It is natural and appropriate for us to be devoted to him. Try to be a child who can make him happy, in the future if he is happy with us then Allah will also make us happy and we will get HIS blessings. thank you so much for you coment
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Your personal experience of living with and caring for your 82-year-old mother is inspiring, and your dedication to her well-being is a testament to the value of filial love and responsibility.
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Thank you very much for the verification and all the suggestions, I hope I can be given good health so I can still take good care of my parents.
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I love how you pointed out patience as a virtue for anyone who wants to care for the aged. Taking care of the age has a lot to teach us about age. As a person grows old, they start to act like children and we have to return that Patience they gave us when we where kids. You did the right thing bring her to love with. She staying alone in the house was not going to do her any good.
Well done my friend.
You mother is so beautiful and so are you. I can see where the beauty comes from.
Best of luck.
Your comments are very good and I feel happy and touched reading them. There is nothing more valuable in this world than my mother, because she was the one who brought me into this world. Thank you very much friends for praising my mother and for visiting here, I really appreciate it, blessings to you
You are welcome friend.
"No matter how hard we fight fate not to enter old age, we will still pass through old age in this life. Someone who is about to enter the elderly or someone who has entered the age of 60 years and over is those who have experienced a period of decline in their productivity."
Very very true ,in all they ways we can we should take care of them , because one day will surely be getting old.
It is true that every living thing must experience a period of growth. However, you still try to maintain your health. Thank you for giving a good opinion friend, warm greetings from me
The main thing is to keep them pleased and assure them that they are protected. If not, they may suffer from depression, which will bring unexpected problems when their health decreases.
That's true, that's the reason we always try to make our parents calm and happy. One day we too will experience something similar. Thank you very much for your kind comments. Blessings to you
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MashAllah really glad to see your post. Allah may bless you with everything that you have ever wished for, elders are source of Allah's blessing, so glad to know that your mother can offer her prayers and she observes fast too. I am from Pakistan , plz ask your mother to pray for all of us for the worlds. Allah may give her long life and Allag may give us the patience to take care of our elders like you do. All the best for the contest.
Thank you very much for your comments full of prayers, Aamiin Allahumma Aamiin