Again about friends

I certainly love my foreign friends, but sometimes they freeze me terribly.
When they are going to go to Ukraine, I always call them to my place, buy a ticket for the train - that's all. You will live in a good place, sleep on a fresh bed, you will be well fed, watered, all for free, and no one is waiting for anything, everyone is very happy to see you, walk with you and show places (which can be very beautiful and picturesque ). The only thing you need is to buy yourself a train ticket for 20-25 euros, not to mention that even along the way you can see a lot of interesting things from the window, and then come to me. But no, these hens say to me "oh something is expensive" or "oh something to go to you is uncomfortable" or "oh, but I'm embarrassed" ... but why do not you come to me in Milan ?! "That is, for them but for me there is no, or it's uncomfortable for me to go, but to me, yes. "At the same time she has a monthly salary of 4,000 euros, and I have 400. At the same time, Milan I saw a hundred times, but nobody will let me go there, they are so simply not accepted, and I will have to rent a hotel there (yes, at the European prices of the Italian tourist city, and this is from 100 euros / day and above), to run and jump, just for the sake of communicating After all, they are so important and close to my heart that I am ready for this all, if only to see them.
One of me now just finished off. I tried to persuade her to call on me long enough. She will be here for two weeks almost in February, will travel around Ukraine, and that's what she writes: "Well, did you save money to come to me in Milan?", Which I got "yes, here I sit and I save, money is not worth spending anymore. " Now silent, offended probably. And she can not come to me, because you see her, it is inconvenient to live with someone for a day or two. This attitude is simply enraging! After that, you want to stop all communication right away and forever.
By the way once in the spring, I still peppered to her in Milan, and at the same time to meet with another of my girlfriends, and at the expo at the same time. Adjusted dates, went to the highest season. She was too lazy to make a detour and stop by Milan from Bergamo (it's half an hour by train +/-), she began to lie to me that she mistook the date of the flight that she could not come. I was so angry that I was already shaking. As a result, she came, of course, but the fact remains

Photo of the railway station in Milan, taken from an open source