What is the most afraid of a marriage?

It's not that I couldn't make it, and finally divorced. It's that they have a bad life, but they can't live without them, but they don't want to change each other, half a lifetime of indifference, and a lifetime of torment. Husband and wife slap in the palm of one's hands, and one can't make a sound. Unfortunate marriages must also have problems between both parties. Therefore, in unhappy marriages, there are generally the following three problems:

There must be a party with low EQ.

The most feared thing about marriage is that each other's emotional intelligence is not high. If you say something is not good, I will slap, scold and slap, and it will not be over if you don't get a divorce.

For example, when a woman says, let’s go out to eat, and don’t want to do it.

Men with emotional intelligence will say, if you are tired, I will do it, or if you want to eat, I will pay the bill.

And men with low EQ will scold you, will cooking a meal make you exhausted?

Then, the woman either cried or started to scold...

Couples with low emotional intelligence, even if they don't divorce all their lives, they will spend their lives in noisy and noisy lives. What they say is all heartbreaking and there is no sense of happiness.

There is a huge disparity in strength between the two parties.

Don't deny that what marriage needs most is reciprocity, from personality to economy. Once there is inequality, the balance of marriage becomes unbalanced, and the relationship between husband and wife becomes superior and inferior.

A person who cannot make money must be at a disadvantage in marriage, because you need to reach out everywhere.

A person who has no opinion on everything and is accustomed to relying on, in marriage, is doomed to be neglected, because you can't do anything and don't listen to others, what can you do?

Even if two people with very different strengths do not divorce, the weaker one is destined to be despised for a lifetime.

There must be someone who is extremely unreasonable.

The other half who is most afraid of encountering is unreasonable. Nothing makes sense, it always goes against you.

For example, when a man wants to buy some stocks, a woman jumps up to object, fearing losing money.

For example, when a woman wants to travel, a man rushes to chat and waste time and money.

Women don’t know, you don’t manage money, and money doesn’t manage you.

Men don’t know that if they don’t travel far, they lose their vision and mind.

Couples with unfortunate marriages must have individuals who are extremely unreasonable and unreasonable. In the end, they don’t want to talk, don’t communicate, and finally become independent.