Wife is too strong, talk about the influence on men
If a man is the backbone of a family, then a woman is the pinnacle of the sea.
A good couple does not lie in a perfect fit, but in the ability to support each other and influence each other to make progress together. Husbands and wives can influence each other, this is for sure, so what influence will a woman who is too strong have on men?
Wife is too strong, talk about the influence on men!
The pressure makes men weaker and weaker.
Strong women are accustomed to being self-centered, so they always impose their wishes on others, showing that everything I do is right and everything I do is reasonable.
Not allowing anyone to refute oneself, nor listen to other people's opinions, is the kind of unhuman domineering.
When she is unwilling to change herself, a man can only be forced to obey and obey again and again in order to live his life. As time goes by, he will become devoid of opinion and develop a weak character.
Perhaps at the beginning, the man will take out his bottom line and "contest" with her again and again, trying to change her, but those are all unnecessary quarrels after all.
After waiting for a long time, I found that the quarrels were of no avail. In addition, the frequent quarrels were too tiring, so I simply followed his words and tried to be safe.
This is a kind of compromise in disguise, and then in this kind of compromise, you gradually lose your bottom line and principles, and you are cautious about what you do for fear of offending the other party.
Being overwhelmed with less and less self-confidence.
A woman's strength is largely due to her disdain for a man, or a man who does not meet her expectations, so she will be surrounded by various negative emotions and vent her anger through degrading, suppressing, and ridiculing men.
So a strong woman is simply a group of irrational anger.
He doesn't have any toughness, and he can't recognize the value of men, so naturally he has no appreciation and praise.
If things go on like this, a man will fall into a long road of self-doubt, doubt his abilities, doubt his life, so that the heavy burden of "I can't do it" is always on his heart.
This was the beginning of the loss of self-confidence. Slowly, he dared not do anything. He was more afraid that he would not be able to do it well and that he would be hit by his wife. He cares too much about the result, and the result is too important to him.
It is conceivable that a man who does not even get the approval of his wife at home will gradually lose his masculine spirit outside and act fearlessly.
He is getting lonely and autistic.
If a strong woman is always reluctant to get rid of her personality, then her love for men will in turn only become a burden for two people, that is, no one can accept the form and way of her lover.
For men, home is no longer a haven of enjoyment, but a place of endurance, pain, suffering and heavy weight.
Gradually getting used to the days when you are succumbing to the surrender, and getting used to tolerating loneliness by yourself, you will become more and more autistic, let alone have any energy.
Even to him, home is just a place where he desperately wants to escape, which will only make him more lonely.
Another is that because a woman is too strong, it will make a man feel that that family is just his wife's family, not his own.
There is still room for change in material poverty, but mental poverty is often incurable.


