Whether you want or not, your life journey has begun from the moment you were born. You have a great deal of contact with the world, and you can communicate with others.

Of course, maybe someone will say, not to communicate with others, as well. Yes, when I grow up, I have a time when I live alone. I really don't have much, as long as you like.

But if you have heard about the children of human beings who were abandoned from childhood and raised by animals, what did they become? Can they integrate into human life quickly? You will understand that communication is really important.

We need to communicate every moment, especially when we meet some difficult problems. In order to achieve the goal without hurting and encouraging our feelings, we must pay attention to the way and method. This effective and appropriate communication is often the magic effect that communication experts can achieve. Today, we explore the essence of communication from the psychological point of view by analyzing the goal, characteristics and methods of communication.

Generally speaking, what is the goal of communication? It mainly includes the following aspects:

1、 Meet physiological needs.

Some people may say, what is the relationship between communication and physiological needs? Think about it. Can a person who likes to talk and communicate can she vent her bad emotions more quickly?

Her troubles to friends and relatives as soon as they are easy to release and comfort, no longer so depressed. Her happiness shared and became a double happiness. These are very good for your health.

According to incomplete statistics, the risk of coronary heart disease in people who lack communication for a long time is much higher than that of people who often participate in social activities. For example, older people who have no partner are more likely to feel lonely than those with partners.

2、 Meet the needs of identity.

People want to be recognized by others and like to listen to others' praise. In the praise of others, people grow faster and more easily succeed. On the contrary, if anything has been accomplished, it will be easy to lose confidence and motivation without the recognition and support of others.

3、 Meet social needs.

On the premise of good communication, a person can sometimes release pressure and get happiness by chatting with family members, relatives and friends and colleagues and acquaintances.

4、 The goal of good communication is to help us achieve the goal of solving problems.

So, communication has such a great significance and role, we only envy and envy those who communicate the position of the master? How to improve our communication ability? In fact, communication is not an innate ability. Through our careful study and deliberate practice, we still hope to become a communication master.

In order to improve communication ability, to become a communication master and achieve magical results in each communication, we must understand the characteristics of communication first.

After understanding the characteristics of communication, let's see how communication experts do it. What skills do they have?

First, they know how to judge the situation and talk according to the situation. For example, when friends are found to be talking wrong in social situations, they don't point out on the spot. Instead, find an excuse and opportunity to remind friends quietly. But if, is few friends sit down, they will admit their feelings, sincerely point out the friend's mistake.

Secondly, they have empathy, understanding others' feelings and changing their positions to think about problems. Such a person is more likely to win a good relationship.

Again, they have a good habit of self-monitoring. Always be able to view an objective thing, from those communication to get good results, summarize experience. Learn from those bad communication stories. Always admit and change your mistakes.

Finally, they are also particularly concerned about people. It is that kind of concern that put into practice, is not flattering and perfunctory.

People and people, sometimes, are people to people, eight two to half Jin relationship. No one is stupid. For those who always say a lot of good, but actually they can not give a little bit of so-called friends, just at the beginning, may be blinded by his enthusiasm, but a little longer, it is easy to feel out, and stay away from the silence. Therefore, to become a communication master, we no matter how much communication skills we have learned, sincerity or the most important. We must take our sincerity and face every communication with a positive sunshine mentality.