Is This Infatuation or Love ?

When a person first meets someone and he is really smitten, it can be hard to tell if he is in love, falling in love, or if he is merely infatuated.

Some people may have heard this word for the first time, but in everyone's life, this word is not a single word, it is a reality. We are all familiar with words like love, love and madness, and the common meaning of these, but what you don't know is 'infatuation'. Infatuation means hypnosis and attachment, but the true meaning of it is more than its literal meaning.



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For example, suppose you have met a boy two days ago and you feel that you have started loving him at the first sight. You get so much attracted by that boy's sitting, talking and beauty that living without him starts to look unbearable. But after talking to that boy and knowing him properly, when it seems that 'love' is over, then it means that you have never loved that boy. This feeling which looks like love to you but does not actually happen, is called infatuation.

Difference between infatuation and love

Infatuation is a very strong feeling in which a person feels that he is in love when it does not happen. People consider love to keep thinking about someone every moment, hunger and thirst, to wait for someone and to talk to him again and again, while all this is infatuation rather than love.

Sexual and Mental Desires

While sexual desire is at its peak in the situation on the one hand, in love, sexual desire is only a part of all the other experiences. In infatuation, the person is furious to physically get his partner or whoever he has the infatuation, he always wants to be around her, wants to touch her, wants to fill her in arms. Whereas, love consists of different emotions and feelings. When a person loves someone, he wants emotional and mental presence more than his physical.

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In infatuation, the person who is infatuated wants him for his outer beauty and appearance. He feels that I love him because of which I do not see his mistakes or there is any lack in this person. This does not happen in love. A person in love sees the mistakes, weaknesses and weaknesses of the person in front, accepts them and then wants that person. This desire is called love, in which the bandage is not tied in the eyes of the person, so that he does not see the defects of the other person.

Change of feel over time

If your partner is not giving you time and cannot meet you in the morning and because of this, you have started feeling that maybe your love is ending now, then believe that you have ever loved that person No. Love does not end so soon or say it is a short distance away.

In infatuation, it often happens that a person starts to lose a short distance from his partner, even though the distance is strengthened by love. Strong such that you are batchy to meet the person you love, but you know that it is important for a person to do their work and your love is not affected by this. You understand that person, your love does not end or diminish like this.



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Understanding the process

Love is a process, it doesn't happen suddenly. You have met a person today, you like that very much but you do not give it the name of love. Gradually your feelings begin to grow for that person, you also know his evil and goodness as well as his likes and dislikes. Your desire does not take the name of stopping and this desire does not happen in a day or a moment, it is a process that has been going on in your mind for a long time. This love is true love.

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