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Assalam Alaikum Steemit Family,
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Alhamdulillah, may God bless us with one more special day in this limited life.

Today I am going to share another important topic with you all, as you all know that I try to write the most useful column for you.
Today's column is based on children's explanations.

You must have heard these few sentences from children on various occasions: * I did not do anything. . . * I have not done it. . . * They scold me all the time. . . * No one scolds him. . . etc.

After all, why do children say this? There is a deep psychology behind them. Through them, it can be accurately assessed whether the home environment is favorable for the child or not!

Have you ever wondered or tried to know why a child utters the phrase "I didn't do anything / He did it" after making a mistake? One of the reasons is that he already knows the end of the truth, his little mind is afraid of being reprimanded or beaten for making a mistake.

The disadvantage of your anger or beating is that the child learns to lie from here, he learns that telling the truth will be reprimanded, while no one will say anything about lying, as if your behavior taught him to lie. has been Therefore, instead of scolding the child for the mistake, advise him with love. Explain to him by pointing out his mistake, provide him with a safe environment so that he realizes that parents are not his enemies but benefactors. In this way, the child will not only become accustomed to speaking the truth, but he will also be able to distinguish between right and wrong in a good way.

The child was scolded for something, he sat quietly in the corner of the room, sad, now you ask him in a loving tone, what happened son, why are you so sad? If he gives you an answer like "everyone scolds me all the time" or "everyone scolds me", then you might know what kind of pain is hidden behind these sentences of the child. Which he can not express! What kind of psychological torture has he suffered at this age? The self-esteem and mental capacity of the child is damaged by the constant reprimanding behavior.

Apart from the above example, if you will also consider other sentences, you will know that your child is suffering from some psychological confusion at this time.

Children who have received such a home environment from the beginning and their training style has not been paid attention to, then the mental abilities of the children become damaged. They face failure at every turn of life and such children grow up and lead the life of a failure in the society.

Dear parents! God, correct the way of training your children. Develop their skills, value their small emotions, encourage them. Your correct training style can provide the society with high morale, talent and character.

May Allah grant us all the ability to act. Amen in the place of the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him.

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