Laugh when it's time to laugh and quarrel when it's time to quarrel
Anyone who is really good to you should not treat you as an outsider.
What is an outsider is a person who doesn't eat and sleep under the same roof with you, share weal and woe with you, share weal and woe with you, share weal and woe with you.

A couple in bed may also have a strange dream. This is a formal wife. In my heart, they have already parted ways.
It may be a friend who treats you as an outsider. There are three kinds of useful friends: straight friends, understanding friends and knowledgeable friends. All of them are worth associating with. There is a kind of friend who is very strict and is called a friend. See your good, can also point out your problems, and urge you to correct. In fact, how do you manage other people's affairs? But this kind of friend does not regard himself as an outsider. He must point out your faults and be happy to see you correct them.

It is good for husband and wife to get along with each other, but it is unrealistic. Especially in today's fast-paced, high-pressure life, the couple still need to have so much sense of form and self-restraint. After a long time, will the whole thing go wrong? Anyway, I didn't see that the couple around me didn't make any conflicts. They quarreled a little lightly. If they were serious enough, they would practice a fist. You came and I went. There was basically no injury. They were always injured. It's estimated that the couple didn't last long.
I remember when I first went to work, I met a married girl classmate in junior high school. Later, she got in touch with her more. She talked about the two of them. After a period of time, they didn't fight each other. She felt that the air in the room was not right. When they finished, they were calm and went out to eat together. At that time, it was incredible to hear that the couple could still be like this?

Now I've seen more and more, and I've got experience. I understand the couple more and more. To live is to have firewood, rice, oil, salt, soy sauce, vinegar, tea, bottles and jars together and collide, not to mention two living people?
If you just restrain yourself, you will suffer internal injuries.
Can really treat each other as their own people, get along with the way is more like to treat themselves as casual. It's time to talk, to quarrel, to feel sorry. You can quarrel as much as you like, but others can't.

It's said that people need art to get along with each other. It's a science. I didn't understand my lessons when I was in school. Now I can't stick to it when I work hard on myself. After a long time, it's like setting your own work or life goals and trying to self-discipline. As a result, you're left in a mess.
After a period of time, I said to myself, it's better to be at will. She can always feel it. The same atmosphere, every day noisy, hee hee. The gas field is relative. In the constant friction, if we can go on all the time, we will reach a consensus. The so-called life, but so.
If someone keeps making a lot of noise around us, it's worth savoring carefully. Is the voice behind good intentions? Even if you say cruel words sometimes, it's really from your heart.
When it's time to go back, don't care when it's time to smile.