STEEMKIDS WEEKLY CONTEST #2: THE HOME OR THE SCHOOL, WHICH SHOULD HAVE MORE INFLUENCE ON THE CHILD entry by @joemuk

in Steem Kids & Parents3 years ago

Hello every one welcome to my contest entry in the steemkids community as i write about the home or school, which one has more influence on the child, i will be writing this out of experience like how i grew up.

I will start by saying why i believe that the home has more influence on a child than the school because of the saying that goes charity begins at home and of course where the child spend more time is the home so i will be giving my reason for that in the paragraph below.

Why I choose the home to have more influnce

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The home is a place where your family stay and obviously as a child your family is important to you more than anything because you have received a lot of love from them and obviously you have seen a lot of character and behavior that they display so normally as a child your brain is developing so it watches and store behavior, attitude and knowledge that it sees around it.

Now as a child you don't think about much all you do is take orders and cry because you see taking orders as liking what you are told to do and you cry when you disagree with what is given to you, so if a child is seen destroying his toy and nobody stops him or her that child will not know that you don't destroy toy but play with it just like how my junior brother was when he was a baby i had to seize the toy and when he starts crying i then play with him so that his brain knows that there was a reason why i seize the toy.

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In a place where a child spend most of his or her time is the place that will be more influential to the child it is simple as that and there is no way to balance it because you can't take your child to school on week days so you can't cheat the child brain, that is why as a parent your house hold needs to be peaceful and understanding because that is how the child will grow but if your household is crazy and misbehaves that child will be crazy and he or she will misbehave trust me.

The number of influence that a home have on the child

1). Emotional support
2). Opportunity for learning
3). Love
4). Hates
5). Habits
6). Hobbies
7). Morals

Conclusion

The home wins this one unless your child is in a boarding school but it is rare for parents to do that especially if your child is below 10 years so it is simple meaning where the child stay the most is that environment that will have more influence on the child so it is home

Finally i want to use this last words to thank this community @steemkidss and i want to invite @okoyejoshua @rezzy7709 and @mandate to join this contest or throw more light to what i just wrote.

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It's a nice piece. What I learned from your piece is that, though you believe the home has more influence but you still think that in any one of both settings, wherever the child finds himself/herself more often has the greater influence.

Yes exactly what do you think

I think you're right

Ok thanks

Worth reading

Thanks for bringing our the main points. Home is the best.

Thanks for reading

Is true my everything we are we learn from family

I appreciate your efforts@joemusk your write up is clearly presented. In majority of occasions, what you said here is true. But in some other cases, the association the child forrmed in later years may effect the child behavior in a nagetive way.
Thanks.
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@johanjahb.

 3 years ago 

Hello @joemuk please note any other time they ask you #yourcountry it means that you should put your country name there. Hoped you will do better next time.