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If I had to wager a guess: by responding to life-changing (often negative) circumstances with a positive attitude. Now, a positive attitude isn't the same thing as ignorance. I see it as looking for the best in any situation and using it to your advantage.

Sometimes you have to you know. I've been in this situation for I think 4 years now? The best thing you can do is not to struggle but find a way out even if it feels unpleasant and a step back. You just have to try and try and try again each time differently. There is always a way but it may be hidden (on purpouse), it may look steep way, too many turns or go seem to go backwards. If you unstick your mind from the beliefs which often got you there where you are now then success will come.

Success is often just perseverance over time combined with rational risk taking.

You're so good with words Luke, one day you'll become a scrabble Jedi!