What are you careful?

Be careful that your baby is wronged by being too sensible, and his mind becomes heavy. When he grows up, he will not tell you any problems he encounters, and he will carry everything by himself.

Why do you say that?

Because sensible children are generally, and they are especially able to understand the dedication, struggle and hard work of their parents.
Sometimes parents even occasionally complain: It’s so tiring to work overtime these days, and taking care of their children at home will make the children's minds heavier.

What we need to know is that behind the child's sensibility, it actually suppresses his own true needs and emotions.
In other words, a sensible child is sacrificing himself and understanding the difficulty of his parents.

Perhaps some parents are proud and happy to have such a sensible child.
But in fact, such children will not tell their parents when they encounter problems. Because they think it is not easy for my parents to trouble them because of their own affairs. They often feel that they are capable of handling everything, but in fact they cannot.

So, next time someone praises your baby for being sensible, don't just be happy, and don't forget to hug your baby and say thank you.

The most important thing is, when you get home, don’t forget to tell your children: Baby, mom and dad know that it’s not easy for you to understand us, but adults are responsible for their affairs, and children have to laugh. If there is anything unhappy or uncomfortable in your heart, you must tell mom and dad truthfully that we are your forever friends.

When we say this to the child, the child feels that he is understood. Too sensible children always make people feel distressed, because they swallow everything in their stomachs and never tell others.