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RE: No More SteemVoter for You!

in #steemit7 years ago (edited)

This is just not fair.
Infact this should be reciprocated especially with the nature of the steemvoter. Give and take. On another level, like many people who state that kindness doesn't need to be recipocated is in my humble opinion false to some extent. A relationship with anything including a pet is somewhat recipocal. Every human has the right to feel validated. Acts of kindness are given without expectations true. In a sense you are trusting the other to validate you in return. It's trusting that they will not take advantage of your kindness or giving nature. Recipocating, validating are huge components to any relationship. Without these two it becomes muddy waters. If I am giving to you it's usually out of love, compassion, or respect. That is why I give. The conclusion is if you do not recipocate you do not feel ANY of those emotions for me. We aren't keeping score here, but it could possibly change YOU over a period of time enduring invalidation or intermittent reinforcements. Reciprocating and validation are basic communication and human needs. You aren't asking for mountains to be moved! These things should be expected
I liked that you told us anout this @hilarski