9 Red Flags It’s Time To Let Go Of a Relationship(part 5)

1. You find yourself forcing someone to care
   
   Genuine relationships are made up of two individuals that have chosen to love and care for each other. It’s easy for someone to show up in your life and tell you that they love you; it’s much more difficult for them to demonstrate that love consistently. Those that choose to remain in your life and steadily demonstrate their love and care are the type of individuals that you want for your relationships.
2. They don’t actively listen to you

A person that values your relationship will make your presence a priority, including when you’re trying to have a conversation. It’s certainly not acceptable for them to generally display apathy when you speak or constantly redirect the conversation back onto themselves, completely disregarding your feelings.

1. You change who are you around that person
   You should never feel the need to be another person just to accommodate someone. It’s exhausting, first of all, and it is a telltale sign that the relationship is not consensual. Whether or not the person verbalizes their dissatisfaction with you or you innately know that you must change in order for them to accept you doesn’t matter. What matters is that you do not feel comfortable being yourself, which shouldn’t be acceptable to you under any circumstance.