Don't argue because arguing doesn't win.

in Italy9 months ago
Greetings, friends of Steem Italy, how are you all, I hope you are all in good health, and have a pleasant day, and on this afternoon's occasion I want to write a topic of conversation about arguing, I have a friend who likes to argue about everything, even when it is not needed. His constant need to prove himself right was so frustrating that people started avoiding him altogether. He never admits his mistakes, which only makes things worse. It's a shame that some people enjoy arguing just for the sake of it. Debating can sometimes lead to learning from the other person's perspective. However, if one person argues without listening to the other person's point of view, it can be seen as annoying.
Arguments come in many forms, Sometimes simple arguments can lead to misunderstandings, especially between two people who have a lot of history between them. Arguments can bring back old wounds because when some people argue, they get emotional about it. it is this emotion that makes you think that the person you are talking to should not win the argument. Fighting isn't bad if you can learn from each other and see things from each other's perspective, but emotional arguments should be avoided completely.

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Just be quiet and control what you want to say.

Fights can often lead to the breakdown of relationships, as people may have difficulty controlling their emotions and end up saying or doing things they later regret. For example, imagine a scenario where an entrepreneur is trying to sell a product, but potential buyers point out a defect in the product. If a business person becomes argumentative and responds with anger, this can turn off potential buyers and prevent them from becoming customers in the future. It is important to remain calm and collected during disagreements to avoid damaging relationships or missing important opportunities.
It is important to remain calm when we feel that someone wants to argue with us. Rather than reacting impulsively, take a moment to calm down and consider your response carefully. If you feel angry or upset, it's best to stay quiet and deal with the problem when you have time to calm down and think things through. If the situation is particularly complicated, you can suggest rescheduling the conversation or asking for more time to formulate your thoughts. This way, you can avoid saying something you might regret later.

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Sometimes it's better to say yes so that peace reigns.

When people try to argue with you and they try their best to prove you wrong, it is always better to say 'yes' to them to avoid emotions or small things that you might regret, but simply say 'yes, you are right'. You can maintain relationships, and we save you time. what some people don't know is that no one wins an argument, and you can't use arguments to stop a fight. It's important to control our emotions when we want to argue, and we have to make sure that not everyone we're arguing with, a few 'yes, you're right' will do the trick. so that we can be calm, that's the discussion today, hopefully it's useful and can be a lesson if friends understand what I mean today, this is a useful idea and can maintain debate, thank you, greetings.
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