Who should you trust

in Italy21 days ago
greetings, friends of the Italian community, how are you all, hopefully you are all in good health, and have a nice day, and on this evening I want to discuss about a friend of mine who is currently in Malaysia and called me yesterday, and expressed his disappointment with his brother and his parents regarding the mismanagement of the business entrusted to him.

He told sensitive details, but I can't judge him, I understand that his actions came from his love for them, he didn't want to see his business fail. One of the reasons he went to Malaysia was to get money that could be sent back to them, so they could help develop his business. Unfortunately, the people he trusted had mismanaged his finances and could not account for a large amount of his money.

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He was in so much pain, it must have been so hard for a grown man to cry, I was at a loss for words, especially since his parents and brother were involved, I felt hesitant to advise him on how to handle the family issue.

We have seen this scenario happen time and time again, where people from foreign countries send money back home to help fund projects. Unfortunately, this money is often mismanaged, Some people may use some of the funds to start a project but then spend the rest on personal expenses.

This makes me question whether putting someone you trust in charge or sending money from abroad while you are away is a wise decision.

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Who can you trust

Many people work very hard to earn the money they send, When someone invests in a project, it is a sign of their trust in you.

How can you betray that trust, Is it wrong to ask your parents for help, We know that sending money to strangers can be risky, but when you send money to your parents or siblings for a project, and they misuse it, it makes you question why some people can be so cruel, It really sucks when they say they will use the money quickly before the owner returns.

Many of these people are just looking for opportunities, and they don't care who stands in their way, they will do whatever it takes to succeed.

However, stealing from relatives and close friends is unreasonable, It is much better to ask for help from others, If others can't help, it's okay, let it be, because in life, you don't owe anyone anything.

This situation makes me believe that people have two sides: their true selves and the persona they adopt when it comes to money. Whenever money is mentioned, they often behave differently from their usual selves, revealing how much money controls them.

Money is different

Some people have trouble controlling their impulses towards money, They fail to recognize the importance of relationships and prioritize money above all else.

As a result, they often end up alone. If you betray your family and people who trust you for money or personal goals, chances are the pursuit will not last long, and in the end, everything will fall on you,

the conclusion is do not trust someone too much or friends or boyfriends if the family is beyond my control, and others, if the problem is money and business, that's my discussion today, hopefully useful, thank you greetings.