Be Careful With Insecure

I have noticed several incidents regarding insecurity. So, this is a case of teenagers who may be insecure about themselves, about their environment, and it eventually has fatal consequences. I have a friend, this happened when I was in high school. So I have a friend who is fat, and he is often the target of bullying by his friends. Finally, one day he tried to commit suicide because he couldn't stand being called fat.

I can feel what they feel, because I may have felt the same way, in the sense of feeling that I can't do anything, feeling that I am very lacking compared to other people, feeling that I am nothing compared to the people around me.

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But, that day, when I realized, there was no point in blaming the situation, there was no point in pitying myself. On the contrary, I had to be able to love myself. And that was the point where my life began to change, when I changed my perspective, not only on my life, but on myself.

So, the consequences are fatal if we let that feeling of insecurity grow. So, whatever happens, stop hating yourself.

Now, we're talking about it's okay to be perfect. Actually, this theme is very close to my life, because that's what I keep talking about, especially on my social media. So, because of the era of social media now, if you look at your cellphone, look at social media, "Why do people's lives look so perfect?"

Now, that's something we may never have felt like that. So, the term is the grass is greener on the other side. If now, Instagram is greener on the other side. Because now everything is in your grasp. When we can see other people and their lives, which may not necessarily be like that in reality. Well, that's what we have to keep in mind.

When someone becomes a public figure, there are definitely many expectations from other people about that person, right? That's why there was news about suicide, all sorts of things. So what people may not really realize is that when we give negative comments or bully, that person may be able to immediately return it.

"Yeah, just tell me this....like this...."

But there are those who will take it into themselves and assume that it's real. What he said was true,

"Yes, I am indeed fat, I am indeed ugly."

So, it's like looking more into yourself. That's why I thought about it, all sorts of things. In fact, maybe certain people who are not too sensitive will respond

"Ahh, it's just netizens."

But there are some people who are indeed sensitive, so it becomes a problem. And the process is from a comment that might be one comment, eventually becoming many comments. From a seed, it finally grows, becoming an insecurity. And this might be an inspiration for all of us, to use social media, comment and so on.

Greetings always compact.

By @midiagam