The secret to talking to children is so simple that 90% of parents can’t do it

Children always find us nagging annoying and don't want to talk to us.

If you want to communicate with your child, either you can’t communicate, or you just get separated. Why is this so? Is it so difficult to communicate well with children?

In fact, it is very simple. As long as we learn the "Losada 3 to 1 Rule", we can talk to our children.

This method tells us that in daily interaction, the ratio of good feelings and bad feelings to the other party is different, and the quality of the relationship between the other party and us will be completely different.

The secret is that there is a very subtle ratio between praise and criticism. If you have a good grasp of this ratio, your children will be easily influenced by you.

Needless to say, everyone should have guessed that the ratio is 3 to 1.

That is to say, in the parent-child relationship, every time you let your child experience the feeling of happiness, happiness, and appreciation for more than three times, and then let the child experience the request and criticism again, you will find that the child will be particularly easy to change himself.

So, have you learned it? We should praise and affirm more in the process of getting along with children, and less criticize and criticize