My Spec in a man or woman
Greetings to you Ma, @okere-blessing. I'm glad you could draft out something as smart as this, working us into our specialties.
Indeed, it's certain one should be able to define his/her spec in life, so as not to fall trapped into fake love burdens.
But before I attempt to the hints, I would love to mnemonically distinguish my own spec from the spec of others.
| Letters of Spec | Mnemonics | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| S | Sanctification | I wants my men to atleast have the fear of God. If possible, can obtained any of this: Sanctification or Salvation. When we marry one that has the fear of God, the person will hardly admit to demonic enforcement. This is someone that even when I'm weak, down or not strong will pick me up or kneel with my children and have a family prayer with God. |
| P | Patience | A man that will understand me when I'm hard and soft. A man that will be patience to learn my ways, norms and social values. With patience, even when children are not forthcoming, we can wait unto the LORD until He comes through for us. |
| E | Eternity | A man that will be willing to live with me forever. This kind of men will not be desirous over side chicks or baby mamas. He is always satisfy with me, my youths, my advancement and my adulthood. No complains. |
| C | Certifies | A mans that has a legacy, not easily moved by coward kind of people. Can keep family-related secrets. And shares values with me as well. Has a genuine source of making money for the family. |
Okay. If you had read through from introduction of my work here then you should have a thought on what it is. However, if you didn't understand it, let me make it more clearer.
Personally, I hear the word spec always. I'm surrounded with friends that wants to end up getting a girl pregnant. So the least of their conversation starts with getting a spec and end with getting a type that has big breast, and sexy ass. This is really amazing! There peers that may not be able to manage situations like mine, merely hearing male friends with such statements might be uncomfortable. But I've been so sober to hear and slow to acts. Though it get irritated in my hearing, but I still manage to pay less attention to it.
For those hearing it for the first time, Spec is a word used to describe the expectations of certain characteristics in any gender, be it male or female. For instance, someone may ask question like this: what do you want in me?, that question is directed to the person's kind of lady/guy. So if my respond now becomes: I want a lady that is huge in weight, but ugly in face, you should understand what that means. That may be my own spec in a woman.
Generally, I believe you have what you like in a man or a woman. That is the spec I'm talking about. Everybody on earth here have a spec. Something they want their woman to have in them.
| Letters of Cash | Mnemonics | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| C | Caring | I want a Caring man. One that will care for me, and my children. |
| A | Attention | I want a man that is ready to give me attention. Infact this is the strongest weapon that keeps a family moving. Once the man loses it attention, things begins to go wrong. |
| S | Satisfaction | I want a man that can satisfy me on emotional, sexually and otherwise. |
| H | Honest | I want a man that is honest to core. |
I don't think they should wait. Most of our parents didn't marry their spec, and yet they're doing well. Most times, the determination of the spec comes from our consciousness, but there's a pointer always directing us to the subconscious. If we can lean on the subconscious, there's no how we won't end up getting the perfect match.
Secondly, most person's spec may not be inline with God's word, due to the spirit behind the person's search. If the spirit behind the person's search for his spec is demonic, then the kind of spec the person will desire might be marine in nature. That's why it's advised, do not follow your own desire, follow the desires of God. God's desire in finding our spec is the perfect will.
Very simple. If my spec is not in-love with me, I can't force myself over someone's sons or daughter, I will move on. I should have someone out there that will match my kind of person.
I invite @bossj23, @rubina203 and @eglis to participate in this contest.
All arguments end at this point😂
Thankyou Sir
Thank you for publishing an article in the Steem4nigeria community today. We have assessed your entry and we present the result of our assessment below.
MODs Comment/Recommendation:
Thanks for sharing your thoughts with us, I wish you the very best.
Remember to always share your post on Twitter using these 3 main tags #steem #steemit $steem
Hi, Endeavor to join the #Nigeria-trail for more robust support in the community. Click the link Nigeria-trail
Guide to join
Thanks for reviewing my work. I will try to maintain decency
https://x.com/Chin57694Okpara/status/1898467215323861075?s=19