Steemit Engagement Challenge S3-W4:Childhood or adulthood, which do you prefer? by @olabillions
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It is another week and am delighted to participate in this week's contest in the steemkids community, a big greeting to all of the admin and mod for doing good work putting up such a contest topic, in this post I will be sharing my opinion about childhood and adulthood, here my opinion may not be supported but it is just the way I see it, without further ado, answers to the questions are provided below
Who is considered a child in your country? Include age
In my country Nigeria, a child is classified as a boy/girl that is still under the control of his representative, guidance, or parent, in this state of childhood, children are free from the worries of responsibilities as they are bound to be gotten everything they require, as a child all we do is have fun, do our assignments, and play with our peer, relatives, or neighbor, the state of childhood is amazing, it a state we wish we could be forever but that can't be the case as we will grow from being a child someday,
In Nigeria, a child in the childhood state ranges from 4 - 17 years of age, Children in this range has less say about their lives as they are been monitored, and controlled and decision can't be made by them, they are the responsibility of parents and guidance.
Who is considered as an adult in your country? Include age
An adult is someone that can be held responsible for his actions, it is a state of adulthood where decisions making and personal activities are carried out, an adult is someone above 18 years of age and legally can be held accountable for his action, an adult deals with responsibilities.
Adulthood is a state where there is enough maturity in a person, a state whereby you see the reality of life, where you realize there is more to life beyond playing with friends and having fun.
Although an adult Is legally said to be above 18 years, in my opinion, 20 years of age is an age where we can be more mature in our way of doing and handling things.
Childhood or Adulthood, which do you prefer?
As I have stated above the classification of adulthood and childhood, both have benefits, but I would prefer my adulthood because of many reasons, adulthood holds a lot of responsibilities, facing the reality of life and the freedom to do whatever you want, travel wherever you want, dictating your moves yourself are reasons why I love adulthood, even with the responsibilities, I will still choose my adulthood because it shape who we are and also it is a state where we can pursue our careers or dream and make money.
Give at least 3 reasons why you prefer childhood or adulthood
Freedom:-
At times we are not always satisfied with the decisions of our guidance or parent as a child,
but as an adult, we have the freedom to decide what suits us or not, we can travel from one place to another on our terms.
in this state we are not being monitored as we are the boss of our own decisions.
Experience:-
As an adult, I have learned from different experiences in life which make me who I have become today, experience they say is the best teacher, in this stage, we can learn from our mistakes or people's success or mistakes. as such we use experiences developed to make good decisions or moves in our journey of life.
No permission
We need no permission to activate our desire, if I want to attend clubs, play football games or any other activities.
I don't need permission from anybody, I don't have to wash the dished before I am entitled to the cooked food, things are being done in my way and this is also the reason why I love adulthood.
If you have pictures of your childhood and adulthood, we will like to see them.
Unfortunately, I don't have a picture of my childhood on my phone, I can only share a that of my adulthood,
Growth is inevitable, even though childhood is full of fun, love, care, and affection, we will one day leave that stage and face reality.
Some wouldn't want to become a child because of their childhood experiences, our experiences matter here too, like me, I was flogged a lot, and as such I don't want my childhood anymore.
It is true many people want to become a child to run away from stress, and responsibilities but for me, I wouldn't trade my useless things to become a child.
I invite @pandora2010 @josepha @jimah1k @lhorgic @naka05 @vivigibelis @yolvijrm @rmm31 @ruthjoe to this contest.
Cada etapa tiene sus ventajas y desventajas, que bueno que puedes disfrutar al máximo tu edad adulta, te deseo mucha suerte.
Thanks for your comment, both stages has it benefits as I have stated, best of luck to you too in this contest
This is one big advantage of which I admire about being an adult. Growing up, some decisions were usually decided by our parents which did not fall into our liking but because we were children we could not make our own decisions and it was sometimes annoying. For example my choice of going to senior high school was decided by father and I don’t really like the schools he chose for me. I was sad that I was going to the same school as my classmates but because I was a child, I didn’t have anything choice but had to go to the school my father liked.
Thank you for sharing your views here with us, your post was very good and I enjoyed passing by. Good luck my friend
Of course, we can't express ourselves the way we want, at that stage they believe their opinion is all that matter,
Thanks to yourcomment
Hola @olabillions
lamento que en tu niñez te hayan flagelado mucho, eso es muy frecuente en algunas crianzas, pero lo buenos es que ahora eres un adulto responsable y muy educado. Ser adulto es lo que tenemos, es nuestro presente y debemos disfrutarlo.
muy buena entrada!
Oh, ma'am, the spanking cannot make me wish to be a child, but regardless my childhood was very interesting with a lot of fun, as adulthood comes with reality I had to face and love the reality
Thanks for your comment
A wonderful entry you have made here my friend, you prefer the adulthood because of freedom, experience and no permission. You are right about the reasons stated above because no one will have to tell you waht to do and when to do it. I wish you success in this contest my friend. Steem On!
Thanks for your comment friend, I live adulthood for many reasons but my childhood was also amazing with a lot of memorable moments
You are right. In adulthood we have freedom, gain experience and we don't need anyones permission to do things. You become more responsible. Best of luck.
Thanks for your comment, am glad you find my article right, adulthood has it own benefits too
Thanks for the comment,
This is absolutely true, because I can remembered when I was a child my mom and dad used to control me by telling me the type of people I should hang around with and those I shouldn't played with for my safety.
To some kids it were like a prison for them because their movement are controlled by their parents. Honestly, sir you have written so well about childhood and adulthood which I learn so much from your post. Best of luck to you.
For Nigerian kids, especially the Yoruba tribe, the control was too much, you have to render your activities of the day to your pop man.
Thanks for the comment
What about first 4 years ?
You are right . But i think the decisons taken by our parents on our part in childhood are better than our decisions because we are immature enough to understand the gravity of any situation and make appropriate decisions.
That's absolutely true . The things that we learn from our mistakes have a long lasting effects on our memory and its less likely to repeat those mistakes in future.
Good luck
Toddler and infant but they are childhood too
In some cases, they kill the vibes in you, imagine practicing to play an instrument and they tell you music is trash, they want you to become a lawyer or a doctor
Experience develops our way of living, thanks for your comment
As a young person I agree with every word he says, since sometimes it has happened to me that I want to do something and my mother says that I am not old enough for that.
Good luck in the contest 🤞🏻
Best regards.
Many Blessings..🙏🏻
Thanks for your comment friend, am glad you could relate to my experiences of restrictions
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You are right, as an adult you have the freedom to do what ever you want without taking any permission from any body. Adulthood is good too but I prefer my childhood though 😁
This point is so true my friend, some people had a very bad experience when they were still a child. As you said experience matters alot 🤔
Thank you for sharing with us. And I wish you all the best.
Thanks for your comment, am glad you could relate to my publication.