Value in Marriage.

There is no denying the importance of value in any kind of relationship. Without value, it would be easy to discard such relationship.

Most relationships end with "We just stopped talking".

You don't just stop talking to someone who adds value to you except their work or job in your life is done. You know there are some doors you don't force open when they are shut, just to keep your dignity and prestige intact.

In marriage or any kind of relationship, we should always make it hard for the other person to leave us. Value can be added when you always go into any kind of relationship with the mind that you don't want to leave it as you met it. Have you ever seen people shed tears when someone leaves? Have you ever seen people lose it when they lost someone? It is easier for the other person to leave you when they feel you are adding no value to them. Make it hard for the other person to leave you. Be too relevant to be ignored.

"Value adders are always hard to be shoved aside". - Olawalium.

Relationships doesn't come with a manual, yes, we deal with each other according to how we allow them. You always set the bar for how you want others to treat you. You want value? Be a value adder! You want to be loved to stupor, please by all means, do that too. In this world and with the way those who lag behind are being left behind, you can't afford to trivialize things and do things out of convenience.

Relationships are important to how far we can go in life, more so, marriage.

In marriage, both parties should always add value. Divorce is rampant nowadays and it would be less so if both are value adders and the other person doesn't feel he or she is doing more than the other. I am not saying most marriages break because of this, no, there are so many reasons why marriages break, and i don't intend going deeply into that, but what i am saying is when a partner adds value, then it would be difficult for the other partner to do without such person. No one likes a leech.

"Mutualism" is always the bedrock in any relationship.

Things would be easier if we don't go into marriage to curb loneliness or simply because of love. Love is more than enough, yes, because love involves adding value too, but sometimes the word love is always lost in context.
How do you explain love to your wife when she needs your input in her work or business and you come up short? How do you explain love to your husband when he needs your support and you make it known in a stylish way, "that isn't your jurisdiction?"

Know little about everything and not necessarily all about one thing. Stretch. Seek knowledge.

No one knows it all, you can help directly or indirectly. Break the limits.

I heard the testimony of a man who said anytime he wants to go for a contract and he involves his wife and she prays over it, he always get that contract, and not only that, they pay early too. That is her value to that relationship and if that man doesn't want to mess with his finance and his life haha, he better stick to her and also, in any way he can too, he should add value to her life; perfect compliment!.

Add value to the relationship you are in right now. Be deliberate about it. Bring something to the table. Break the limits. Break the odds. Don't do the things that are easy. If it were easy, anyone would do it. Be too relevant to be ignored.

Thank you for reading.

Still me,

Olawalium: (Love's chemical content in flesh). Take a dose today; doctor's order!.

*Relationship/Family is everything. Cherish them.

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