" I AM SORRY" ; How Those Words Break Relationships

in #life6 years ago

While it is good to say you are sorry every time you are wrong it is is better to avoid being wrong too frequently and saying you are sorry.

I have seen people who find it so difficult to apologize when they are wrong. This people are wrong.

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However, I've seen others who do apologize but they just go on getting the other person angry continually and apologizing at every instance. I hope you know you are self-centred and wicked.

Even though she forgave you the last time you cheated, she was hurt. Don't cheat again and again and still apologize again and again. That is awful.

The last time you shouted and embarrassed him in public, he felt less of a human. You came around and apologized, he forgave you for peace to reign. I think he shouldn't go through that episode no more.

He has spoken to you about certain habits and actions that he finds repulsive. You have apologized at every instance you missed it. It's good you apologized but it will be better you avoid doing things he doesn't like. That is how to build strong relationships.

When you place yourself in a situation where you have to apologize for repeating an error, you place the other person in a position to chose between you and his consistently harassed emotions. Even if he chooses to forgive you today, tomorrow, some day he won't be able to even if he wants to.

I believe the smartest way to build strong relationships is to avoid actions that makes you sorry as much as possible.

@orishtimothy

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