Important point of which you speak when referring to solve first the personal problems, disturbing memories, bad experiences and others must be there in the past, take the good of these events and learn the lesson is important to not make the same mistakes again. practicing communication and trying to solve problems in the couple in time to prevent them from staying there for a long time is vital to avoid accumulating all these bad feelings that somehow when talking will end in a discussion and more problems.

A greeting @ abigail-dantes, as I always say, it's a pleasure to read you