7 lessons from the book, "The smart money Woman"
I usually like to create time to read books, you know they always say "readers are leaders". Besides, good writers are known to be readers, I encourage you reading this post now, to read more.
So, I read the book "THE SMART MONEY WOMAN" by Arese Ugwu recently and it was an interesting read. Apart from the fact that it is interesting, it is full of lessons, lessons quite essential for young people. I personally got this 5 lessons from the book and I've decided to share here.
#1
On finance
Always save 20% of your income
No matter how tough it is to save, no matter how much financial responsibilities on your neck, you have to make it your duty to save 20% of your income. Cut back your spending and save more. You must imbibe this.
#2
On finance
Maximise your earning potential
You must work towards having multiple streams of income. Knowing what you want from life, helps you to determine to achieve this. Also, invest aggressively, there are investments opportunities that are certain to maximise one's earnings.
#3
On relationship
Don't be with a man who is dependent
So there is this couple in the book, the wife is the one that works and earns while her husband invests in wrong deals and cheats on her. It is enough offense, that he is jobless and dependent but in addition to that he cheats, flirts and withdraws money from their joint account without her consent. I don't need to tell you how their story ended...
#4
On marriage
Even if your husband is Aliko Dangote, have your personal source of income..
A woman must have her personal money...not the one given by her husband but the one she earn on her own. It is not ambition, pride or arrogance, it is being wise and smart.
In this book, a rich family suddenly find themselves in debt, the wife totally depended on her husband...She had a real tough time because of this and she learnt the hard way..
#5
On relationship
Good men still exist..
Although I personally believe that men like Tsola in the book are hard to find, I still believe that they exist. They may not exactly come the way we want them or come in a very attractive package. So ..wait for it...
#6
On investments
Have a professional mentor or guide...
There are people who study business, investments, stock, finance and risk managenent. Make people like this your guide. Attending management meetings and enterpreneurship meetings aids connections too.
#7
On finance
Do not live above your means or income...
So Zuri, the lady at the center of the story had an apartment on the Island where she pays millions yearly for rent alone, she wines and dines with friends in the most expensive reataurant, takes uber when she is not driving her car and wears only designers. She buys aso ebi of different prices yet earns 600,000 naira monthly. Tell me how she won't acquire debts..
It is best to check your bank statements and analyze how you spend so that you can cut out unnecessary spendings.
In conclusion, avoid getting financially stranded, have goals, maximise your income, be smart and accountable.
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Wow! Nice points. I particularly liked point number six;
Nobody's an island, people need mentorship and guidance in order to attain certain heights in life.
I'm so getting the book. Thanks for sharing @ponmile
Thank you for your addition, the book is really insighful, you will like it.
Yeah, I know I will.
I love the part that says "good men still exit" wish I can grab a copy of the book sha
Thanks for sharing your thoughts based on the book. Nice review. On the issue of finance, I believe it's ideal a woman, like you rightly pointed out sources other ways of getting income. First, it'll make her to meet her ends without necessarily asking all the time. Even if the man wants her to sit all day and look after the kids, she should not have that as an excuse. The reason being that anything can happen in marriage. Even your legal adviser would tell you same. Sometimes, in special conditions, the woman gets nothing in case of divorce.
Exactly..this phenomenon is common amongst wives of men who work in oil companies. I pray its not too late before such women open their eyes.
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