9 THINGS TO QUIT AND ISOLATE YOURSELF FROM.

in #writing6 years ago

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Good morning ladies and gentle men, hope you had an amazing nice rest?. I'm a Nigerian I go by the name @Princessjulius and this morning I'd like to advice you all about 9 things to isolate from.

  1. Trying to please everyone.
    So many people do this a whole lot and I think it's time they stop. You can't get lost while trying to please the world. Trust me whether you try to please Mr A, Mr B will want to be pleased too. For how long would you please everyone and not find time for yourself. Love for you, truth is whether you live for yourself or not, the world will always have something to say. You only have one life to live so you need to make the best out of you by living your life to the fullest and not trying to please the world or think about what others have to say.

  2. Fearing change.
    Change is the constant. Living in fears and not adapting to the change around you is wrong. You need to be in check, to follow suit, to be in vogue. You need to change your perceptions and perspectives about things. Adapt to change and not run away from it, it will help you a whole lot.

  3. Living in the past.
    Everyone has had their share of pains and sorrow at some point In their lives but what makes you stronger is being able to free yourself from the hurts of the past and look/move forward. The past and the present has nothing in common. You will only remain stagnant when you live in the past. You van not accomplish your set objectives and goals hence you need to kick further from the past.

  4. Over thinking.
    When will things ever get better? When will I own my house and cars? When will I buy my momma a house? All of these and more leads to over thinking which sooner or later leads to High Blood Pressure(B.P). I've had cases of people who die just by over thinking. Overthinking kills, it's dangerous so please quit it. Comparing yourself with others leads to overthinking so please believe in you and try not to compare yourself with the other folks.

  5. Being afraid to be different.
    Try something new atimes. Leave your comfort zone. Do things a lil bit from the usual you and explore.

  6. Beating yourselves up over mistakes.
    You ain't God so you can never very be perfect. Beating yourself over mistakes would make you feel better. Learning from those mistakes and doing better is what you should pit in mind. Mistakes are bound to happen, its not something you can always control because you're just an imperfect human.

  7. Sacrificing your happiness for others.
    Wrong move trust me. You deserve to be happy. Yeah sometimes we displease ourselves just to please other but it should be a regular thing. Just as that person deserves to be happy so do you, never forget that.

  8. Thinking you're not good enough.
    "Inferiority complex". No sweetie, don't be like that. We are all special in our own way. There's a top of uniqueness in everybody here on earth so do not belittle yourself. Quit inferiority complex, have faith in you and go for your goal.

  9. Thinking you have no purpose.
    Everyone on planet earth has an accomplishments. God didn't just create you to come wander around. He created you for a purpose and the more you believe you're alive for a purpose, the better you become.

I have exams by 12pm, had to do a rush on this one and I hope you all learnt something from my post. Please do not forget to upvote, comment and resteem. I gotta go now. Its still your favourite Nigerian diva @Princessjulius signing out for the now and wishing you all a prosperous Day.