90% of parents have not said a word of four words that make children good

Psychological research shows that if parents often say these four sentences to their children, the children will actively want to do better.

• The first sentence: "I love you" can make children feel more secure. I often say "I love you" to children in order to let them know that the love that mom and dad have for you lasts forever, and you won't not love you just because you do a little bit badly.

• The second sentence: "I see your grades, performance, hard work, progress...", focusing on specific things and details in life can enable children to develop and grow by themselves. Children who receive active attention from their parents tend to have better self-development.

• The third sentence: "I understand your feelings" can make children feel that their feelings are being paid attention to and understood by their parents, they will want to communicate with their parents, and parent-child conflicts will be reduced. Not only that, but it also allows children to free themselves from feelings and focus on problem-solving.

• The fourth sentence: "I'm sorry, father / mother apologize to you" is the beginning of a child's happiness. It is also a parent's acceptance of self, accepting their own mistakes, and then bravely speaking out.

The power of these four sentences is great, but we are always ashamed to express, and finally our communication with our children is getting worse and worse, and even our children refuse to communicate with us.