Seven moments that led to a worsening parent-child relationship! Come and see, have you been recruited?

• 1.The child lost his beloved things, very self-blame, sad, guilty... But instead of comforting the child, the mother "accused" her for being careless.
• 2.The child feels that the water is very hot and hopes that the mother can mix some cold water, but the mother always feels that the water temperature is right and ignores the child's request.
• 3.The child wants that pink dress, but the mother thinks that blue is more suitable for the child, ignoring his likes, and acting arbitrarily to help the child.
• 4.Even if the child achieves good grades, the parents still deny the child's efforts, and the response is full of ridicule.
• 5.The child likes to dance, and has achieved good results in the competition, but the parents think it is useless, because the college entrance examination does not add points.
• 6.The child said that his former classmates had long since stopped contacting him, and his parents came up and said that the child was too introverted, and only knew to belittle, but did not know to encourage.
• 7.The child complains that his parents don’t care about themselves at all, but their parents say: "How can I care about you after raising you so much?"

These practices of parents make children feel that mom and dad don’t love themselves at all, don’t value themselves, don’t care about themselves, don’t understand themselves, and don’t respect themselves...

Think about it, if a person treats you the same way, would you like him? Will your relationship with him go on forever? It certainly won't.