Why do kids always like to behave with you? What is the biggest stumbling block in communication?

There are three biggest stumbling blocks in communication: raising the bar, accusing and questioning.

Raising the bar is when the other party speaks, you can't help but turn it back. Especially when you want to criticize the other party, lifting the bar is like a smoke bomb, making the other party confused about what you want to say. Therefore, at home, we must not be a leverage! Because it is very possible to make yourself more and more lonely.

The accusation is that we feel that the child is wrong, and we must directly let him admit his mistakes, so we will not keep accusing him. As a result, you have been arguing about who is right and who is wrong. In the end, the matter is not resolved. So right or wrong is not important, solving the problem is the core key.

Questioning is when you feel that he has done something wrong and asking questions: Why are you so selfish? Why do you not understand adults so much? Why do you not like to learn so much? Such a language is the chat terminator. As long as it appears, you will definitely not be too speculative.