Among the signs of violence and abuse due to harassment are we can find some of the following obvious signs:

• Changes in school performance: in many of the cases those affected by this situation of instability decrease their academic performance.  

• Gains of not going to school: in most cases children victims of violence lie or invent problems to avoid going to school, and this not to continue being psychologically abused.  

• Evident signs of Violence: signs of physical violence can be evidenced through beatings.  

• Low self-esteem: the victim of constant harassment and abuse, whether physical or emotional, the victim is affected in their entire being, leading to a state of loneliness and depression, no desire to do anything.  

Bullying means intimidation, unfortunately, this word is trending and is very popular due to the large numbers of cases of persecution and assaults that are being detected in schools, and which are leading many children to live horrifying and horrific situations.  

Bullying is linked to each and every form of aggressive, derogatory, intentional and repeated attitudes that occur without evident motivation, adopted by one or more students against another or others, with the aim of mocking due to defects or errors committed by those affected , and in many cases just for not being accepted in a certain group of students. 

 

The people or the person who does the bullying does it to impose on the other, and does so through constant threats, insults, aggressions or vexations, with the only intention of having it under his complete control over months and even years . The victim suffers silent in most cases, since being victim of so many humiliations he feels alone and his self-esteem drops completely. The abuse and intimidation makes him feel pain, anguish and fear, to such an extent in some cases, it can lead to serious consequences, such as depression, anxiety, nervousness and in very extreme cases tendencies to suicide.  The constant harassment and verbal and physical abuse among students is more common and is a systematic harassment, which occurs repeatedly over time, by one or more bullies and one or more victims. 

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The consequences of these acts of intimacy and mistreatment towards the most vulnerable peronas, often detonate a violent and impulsive character in the victims, that is why we have often seen, shootings and injuries in primary and secondary schools.  Not all those who are victims of Harassment are seriously affected, because there are children who have a good relationship with their father and they know how to direct them to the most appropriate solutions to these problems, or they attack the problem in time, but in other cases they do not it happens like that, being a fatal threat against the emotional, sentimental and mental stability of a child. 

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To all these mentions, we must have a lot of attention and to see the minimum Indians of some abuse must do something in time, intervening in the most stealthy way possible, because you can avoid with that possible permanent and irreversible damage to the child. As parents it is the duty to be aware of everything that concerns the children and create a good relationship of communication and trust, so that in case of situations of this kind, they can face and solve as a family. 

It is essential to supervise and monitor the behavior of our children and be aware of their moods, always ensure their healthy and correct emotional health, have direct contact with teachers and school counselors in order to be aware of any irregular situation. that may arise in the school environment, also act in time in the face of any eventuality that may cause physical and psychological damage to children.

Giving a timely and effective response can be the solution to this type of problem, and the priority is to eradicate this type of behavior in all areas and from all social strata, and there is no other remedy than the feeling of Christ Jesus and the good values ​​that God leaves us in his word for healthy living among brothers, amen.

Greetings and thanks to all my brothers from Heartchurch, The International Church de Christ