SEC17 WK:#3: large and small families, likes and dislikes
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I sustain myself with the love of family.
MRIK ANGELOU
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I hope you all well and enjoying blessing of God.I pray that you always be happy and succeed in your life. I am going to share with you my point of view about large and small families, likes and dislikes. While living in Pakistan, a man and woman, when a relationship is formed in a couple, they have to face many difficulties.
Some people live in a joint family system and some people are very few people who live in separate houses as husband and wife. Well, the question is whether you have a large family or a small family with more or less children.
If viewed from the Islamic point of view, our Holy Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) has given the good news of paradise to the woman who has more children. But now in the current situation in Pakistan, the situation has become very bad.
The inflation has increased very much, due to which even the basic needs are being met by a person with difficulty. There was a time when there were more children, but things were blessed. Even if money was less, it was good to live.
They used to take care of children, but the current situation is completely different and has taken a scary form. According to my point of view, if you get married, you should have only two children, because in this era of inflation, raising children has become very difficult.
You have not only given birth to children, but their development for five years. After that, their studies, their marriages, there are many expenses in between, which are their clothes, food, drinking, living, and everything they can afford. It has to be done.
The elite class does not face all these problems in Pakistan, but the working class or the salaried people get very little salary, due to which they can hardly afford their food and clothing. Due to which children's education, which is very important to develop their personality, is left behind.
So, in my opinion, you should look at your business or your job and see how much you are earning, then according to this calculation, give birth to as many children as you can raise in a less good way, because if you give birth to children, they should be raised in a good way.
"A small family has big love." - Unknown
That if you can't provide them with the basic needs in a good way, then many problems arise which cause trouble not only for you but also for the society out of which young children start stealing. Apart from that, they do many bad things which affect society.
By the time you have two children, you will be able to feed them, cover their remaining expenses for their studies, and help them become good citizens.
Thanks for reading my post.
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Una de las cosas que influyen, para evitar las familias numerosas, es la parte económica, porque cubrir la necesidad donde existen tantos niños no es fácil, además de la medicina y cubrir los gastos de su educación.
Saludos y mucho éxito.
@tahispadron (75)You are absolutely right, I value your opinion, in this era of inflation, it has become very difficult to afford children's education, medicine and other expenses.Thanks for reading my post. Best wishes dear.
Hello friend.
A good focus on the advantage of a small family in your country, because of the same economic conditions and high inflation, it is not possible to support a large family.
The job and how much a person can earn, you look at it as something fundamental, even if it is a small family.
I hope that in time you will be able to have a family with your better judgment.
Happy afternoon.
@elpastor (73)Yes, according to the current situation, a small family is the best, in which you will be able to raise your children in a good way.Thanks dear for reading and such a valuable comment.
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You've shared a great post and family big or small. May all our families always be in happiness. Keep sharing interesting posts.
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@walictd (74) Thanks for your kind observation and appreciation.
You have spoken my heart samina.
The situation is very bad in our society, people continue to produce children every other year thinking it islamic but fail to raise them well.
In future they blame their children for all the sacrifices they have to make to meet their expenses. But the thing is children never asked their parents to bring them in this world.
It's high time that our society (middle and lower class) start family planning.
It's better to raise a good ummah than producing them in bulk with no purpose in life.
Thanks @aminasafdar (64) for positive response, And thanks for agreeing with me.Our problem is that we produce children without looking at resources and are unable to provide them with basic needs.Thanks for beautiful comment dear. Best wishes.
Aslam o Alikum
Thank you for mention me in your post. You share such a amazing entry about this and share advantage and disadvantage about the Small family. In Pakistan small family is necessary because we have limited resources so we work on This
Best of luck my friend for future.