SEC17/W2| While making decisions, what do you prefer to follow: heart or mind?

in Incredible India17 days ago

Hello Everyone. I am @shiftitamanna
From #Bangladesh

Assalamu Alaikum. Best wishes to the Incredible India community for hosting the second week of engagement challenge. This topic is very good indeed. And that is, while making decisions, what do you prefer to follow: heart or mind?

I am presenting my entry to tell you what I prefer while making decision. Before that I would like to invite my three friends @mdkamran99, @irawandedy, @patjewell, @goodybest to participate in this challenge. Click here to go to the link.

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What is your preference while making decisions, heart or mind?

In my case, I prefer the mind when making decisions. But on the other hand, I have a little conflict between my heart and mind while making a decision. Because many times my heart and mind seem to be guided by different things. For example, if I speak of the heart, it influences me with emotions or desires, and on the other hand, if I give priority to the mind, it influences me with various arguments.

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So it becomes difficult for me to make a decision many times. I'm not that sentimental though. I have always been a realistic person. I have suffered in many places in the past from making decisions with a lot of emotion. But now I have managed to change myself a lot. But now if I think of taking any decision then first of all I will give importance to my mind and prefer to take reasonable decision.

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Do you think we need both in terms of making decisions? Describe reasons.

From my point of view, I prefer to handle situations in a realistic and rational manner. Now if it is time to make a decision in this case I think it should be taken from the heart. Because people avoid reality in decision making because of emotion. Because the heart will never give you any chance to judge good and bad. Emotions should never be overpowered in making important decisions in life.

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On the other hand, the mind will show you the consequences and the logical reasons for making the decision. At this time we will have an idea about the risks of making decisions. And understanding the pros and cons of the risks will help you make the right decision. So I would suggest that decision making should be based not on both mind and heart, but on the mind. Because it has intelligence and consciousness.

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Are you an emotional or a practical person in real life?

I am a practical person in real life. I think practically in all the decisions and actions of my life. I have not seen any problem with it. Rather, being a practical person in my life, I have been able to take some decisions correctly and I have been successful in them. Practical thinking has helped me in many ways. I think it has helped sharpen my thinking skills. I have faced loss many times in life by being emotional. So I have learned to take every decision practically by learning from life experience.

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Do you have any suggestions for youth which one they should follow in their day-to-day lives?

What I have learned from my personal life experience is what I would advise young people to follow. As I have mentioned earlier to make your own mind prevail when making a decision. Because if you take a decision with your heart, the result may not be good. We should refrain from taking decisions on impulse. Also, you should give yourself time while taking the decision and think about what benefits will be in taking the decision.

Also, while making every decision, you have to remember to prioritize your choice and think with your mind about the logic and the physical content. And along with that we should keep some alternative thoughts ready. Because if ever the decisions do not give the expected results then any alternative advantageous decisions can be taken.

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Greeting my dear sister obviously it's life and we make the sea no with the help of heart and brain but sometime as there is conflict as you mentioned in your post because when you make decision from our heart there is little emotions attached and when with brain obviously there come different arguments. but its life we rely on both and could not deny their significances in our lives.

Good luck

 17 days ago 

Buen día, sabes creo que todos en el pasado nos hemos equivocado al tomar decisiones apresuradas guiándonos por nuestras emociones y es que los sentimientos son una cosa seria que nos hace pensar que es lo correcto.

Creo que después que uno madura aprende a ser una persona realista, pero nunca debemos dejar las emociones a un lado porque igual nos servirán para tomar la decisión correcta.

Hola amiga, me alegra conocer más de ti mediante este post. Me contenta saber que eres una chica realista y que estás atenta en las decisiones que vas a tomar en tu vida, para ello te decides en ir por la mente, ya que la misma te ayuda a razonar los pros y los contras de una posible decisión.

Muy buen consejo le das a los jóvenes, hay decisiones en algunos casos que debemos inclinarnos más por la razón, porque en la vida deberíamos enfocarnos en cumplir nuestras metas y sueños.

Para ello, cada acción tiene una consecuencia, debemos ser realista y diferenciar lo que nos conviene y lo que no.

Te deseo mucho éxito en la entrada, saludos cordiales. 😃✨

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Quite a difficult one for me to pick. Actually before I didn't know the difference between the heart and the mind but my eye open to see the difference between the heart and the mind in this your post today actually

 16 days ago 

Hello, it has happened to all of us that emotions flow and we make decisions guided by the heart but they are learnings that strengthen us, experiences that we must live in order to learn to be more centered. And the ideal is to be sensible when making decisions, although emotions allow us to consider important aspects as well.

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Greetings dear sister! It is really becomes difficult for us to make a decision many times. We are not that sentimental though. We have always been a realistic person. We have suffered in many places in the past from making decisions with a lot of emotion. So we have to very careful about it. Best wishes

I prefer to make decisions based on my mind rather than my heart. Although there may be times when the heart and mind conflict, I believe that a rational and logical approach is essential for making the right choices. Emotions can cloud judgment, while practical thinking can lead to successful outcomes. It is important for young people to prioritize sound reasoning over impulsive emotions in their day-to-day lives.

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