Why is dialogue important in sex: How to improve sex life
Today we will talk about dialogue in sex and why it is so important. Dialogue, a frank talk with your partner, will help you improve your sex life. You can read a lot of articles about sex, watch a movie, and even go to educational courses, but not all tips may work.
Each person is a separate book. All receptors, feelings for all work differently. Therefore, it is important to do a short interview before sex. You should read your partner as a book and this knowledge will give you both an unforgettable experience. Even if you experience sex life crisis, dialogue will help both of you get out of this state.
I give tips for better sex that I personally tested. For example, my girlfriend does not like finger penetration. She is in pain. She is quite compressed and completely relax for her there is a problem.
Start with the atmosphere
The environment in the room is important for complete relaxation. Know that there are high sensitive people. These include, for example, my girlfriend. The body of such people is itself compressed and must be relaxed before sex.
Ask the following questions:
- What should I do to make you feel comfortable?
- Are you cold?
- Should I reduce the lighting in the room?
- Do you want me to turn on the music?
If the room is cold or in an unpleasant light, this will not contribute to relaxation. Take care of this.
Relax your bodies
You can drink something first. It does not have to be alcohol.
Which of the drinks works with me:
- Red wine
- Cube-libre cocktail (white rum + cola + lime)
- Tea
Then you can try a massage. Massage perfectly prepares your partner's body for sweet sex. Ask your partner which massage she/he loves the most. Legs and foot massage works well.
Before you start the massage, make sure that you have warm hands.
When you are doing massage on your feet, gently rise to her knees, then higher and get to pussy. Ask how best to stroke her pussy. Ask her to show how she strokes her pussy. Follow her movements and repeat after her. Accordingly, if you are a girl and want to give pleasure to your boyfriend, ask how it will be better for him. It is better to start with gentle strokes and shallow touches of the lips.
Alternate the speed of touches (stroking). Fast, slow, deep, on the surface. If you notice that your partner is getting nasty, slow down.
Almost ready
After such preparation, your partner will most likely say: "come to me, take me!".
Enter slowly, kiss on the lips, stroke her hair and do not forget about the speed. Alternate fast with slow.
When you enjoyed each other a little, you may ask: "how do you want me to fuck you?". Talk about sex in bed, ask what I can do for you?.
For example, I ask my girlfriend to bite me or hurt me. She asks me to go into her slowly and deeply.
Enjoy each other and make each other an unforgettable evening.
Another little sex tip from me: When we finished, we lie in bed and talk about sex. I ask her: tell me about your craziest sexual desires? What sex would you like to try? Usually this conversation ends with a pleasant continuation. Her warmed body becomes more supple and we enjoy each other even longer.
Share tips on improving sex life in the comments. Also tell in the comments what works with your partner. Let's share sex experiences)
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